Family is the cradle of a child's growth and the warmest harbor for a child. In this family, the little granddaughter was not blamed and punished after accidentally breaking several bowls, but was pampered and comforted by her grandmother and grandfather. Netizens expressed their envy and sighs, feeling that such a family is really happy.
However, one of the netizens shared his personal experience in the message. He recalls breaking a bowl when he was a child, and his finger was still cut, but he didn't get anyone's attention and attention. He was forced to stand aside and watch his family enjoy dinner, listening to them say that he couldn't eat without a bowl. Although this event has passed for a long time, it is a memory for him that he will never forget.
This netizen's experience resonated with other netizens. Someone commented that he accidentally broke a bowl when he was 13 years old, only to be slapped hard by his father. Others recalled that when he was five years old, he dropped a bowl and was beaten by his parents in turn, and even his father took out the chopsticks from the chopstick holder and hit him on the head. All kinds of cruel treatment made them fear and resist, and felt that breaking a bowl was more important than their own lives.
These poignant stories make people sigh that the gap between happy and unhappy families is really so big. Some children break a bowl may just be a mistake, while others are brutally treated by their families because of this mistake. This makes us think deeply, what is the warmth of the family, and how should parents educate their children?
Breaking a bowl may be an unintentional mistake for a child, but a parent's education style and attitude towards mistakes will directly affect children's growth and mental health. In some families, parents choose to punish their children for domestic violence, while in others, parents treat them with tolerance and understanding.
Back to the scene where the little granddaughter breaks the bowl, the grandmother does not blame her, but comforts her and says it's okay. This approach to education sends an important message that no one is perfect and that mistakes are inevitable. Empathy, if the grandmother chooses to blame and punish, this unintentional mistake may cause greater psychological damage to the little granddaughter, and even affect her self-confidence.
Similarly, the family education experience shared by netizens also calls for us to think calmly about mistakes. When educating their children, parents should neither be too tolerant and indulgent, nor can they harm their children with violence. It is the right way to persuade people with reason. Mistakes are the process of children's growth, and parents should give them the right guidance and education, rather than using violence to solve problems.
Looking at the memories and thoughts of netizens about this incident, we can't help but think about a question, why are we so nostalgic and afraid of a broken bowl? Why does breaking a bowl even trigger violence and scolding from family members?
A broken bowl may be just a small thing for a child, but this little thing carries our expectations of treating mistakes and caring for our families. For children, this bowl may mean harmony and warmth in the family, while breaking this bowl can make them feel guilty and afraid.
However, we have to understand that the value of a bowl does not lie in its quality and **, but in the warmth and pampering of the family it represents. Whether well kept or unintentionally broken, this bowl should be a bond of care and tolerance between family members, rather than generating violence and abuse of children in the family.
All this brings us a profound revelation that we should treat our children's mistakes with tolerance and understanding. A broken bowl does not determine the value of a child, let alone a reason for accountability and punishment. The home should be a good environment for children to grow up in and thrive with warm care.
Behind this seemingly simple story, the reflections and reflections brought to us are profound and complex. From a broken bowl, we see differences in the way home education is done and different attitudes towards mistakes. From the sharing of netizens, we felt happiness and pain, and also understood warmth and cruelty.
We live in a world of diversity, and each family has its own way of education and family style, but in any case, we should give each child a warm, understanding and tolerant environment to grow up. Let them grow up in the sunshine of the family and pass on this warmth to the next generation.
Perhaps, when we see a broken bowl, all kinds of emotions and thoughts arise, but the important thing is to educate our children how to face mistakes and make the right choices. Let's work together to create a warm and harmonious family and give children the best education and growth environment. In this way, they can thrive and embrace a bright future.