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The less capable the siblings, the more they like to "squander" in these three areas?
In a family, there may be siblings who don't have much personal achievement or social status for various reasons, and they may not have much wealth or resources. However, these siblings tend to be very much in some ways"Generous", which makes people feel very pitiful. This article shows how weaker siblings in the family tend to in these three areas"Generous"causes and effects, and some suggestions to help them change this behavior.
Some siblings will be very generous materially because of their unstable financial situation, or because of inner insecurity or low self-esteem. They may buy gifts they can't afford or pay for them at family gatherings. While this behavior may seem generous, it often has negative consequences. First of all, this kind"Generous"This can lead to family members becoming dependent on them, believing that they should always bear the costs. Secondly, this behavior can also make siblings feel that their worth and abilities are being neglected, which can increase their feelings of inferiority and loss. Suggestion: We should encourage in the material"Generous"The brothers consume rationally and decide whether to bear the household expenses according to their financial ability. At the same time, we also need to respect their feelings and make them feel that their value and abilities are recognized and appreciated. Some brothers may not have much time to spend with their families due to the pressure of work or life. However, when families need help, they don't hesitate to give their time. While this behavior may seem touching, it can often come with some problems as well. First of all, this kind"Generous"behaviour can make family members expect high from them that they should be there for them at all times. Secondly, this behavior can also make siblings feel that their time is being taken up and wasted, which can affect their work and quality of life. Tips: For time"Generous"We should respect their time and work schedule. When they are unable to spend time with their families, we should understand and support their decisions. At the same time, we should also take the initiative to take care of them and help them reduce the pressure of work and life. Some siblings will express their emotions generously because of poor expression skills, or because of anxiety and inner distress. They may often call or text their loved ones, or share their loved ones' messages and messages on social media. While this behavior may seem encouraging, it can often lead to problems. First of all, this kind"Generous"behaviour can cause family members to become dependent on them, believing that they should always meet their emotional needs. Second, this behavior can also make siblings feel that their emotions are ignored and misunderstood, which can increase their anxiety and insecurity.
Suggestion: For emotions"Generous"We should respect the way they express their feelings. At the same time, we should take the initiative to communicate with them to understand their emotional needs and feelings. When they need help and support, we should give them enough attention and support. In short, the more capable siblings are, the more materially, temporally, and emotionally"Generous", which often has a negative impact. We must respect their feelings and needs, while understanding their circumstances and difficulties. We must help them change their behavior by spending wisely, managing their time wisely, and strengthening emotional communication. Only in this way can we build harmonious and meaningful family relationships.