Wen Xiamo. Life is like a palette. Everyone wants their life to be colorful.
The key to what kind of life you will live lies in how you paint and modulate colors.
Dale Carnegie said, "The ability of a man to adapt to adversity is astonishing." Misfortune can be endured and overcome because man has amazing potential, and if he is determined to use it, he will be able to overcome it. ”In the journey of life, we will always encounter adversity that requires us to constantly solve problems.
In the face of adversity, if you know how to improve your following three abilities, your good luck will come.
In a difficult situation, the most solid and reliable is yourself.
The human heart is always fickle. In the face of adversity, people must know how to improve their self-transcendence.
For example, Fan Shengmei in the TV series "Ode to Joy", when she wanted to get rid of her family predicament, she pinned her hopes on Qu Lianjie. Qu Xiaoxuan bluntly revealed his brother's true face.
Fan Shengmei has always been obsessed, thinking that if she finds a man with a rich family, she will be able to break free from the family's predicament and make her life have new possibilities.
So much so that she regarded love as a lifesaver, and finally consumed her youth.
On the road of life, we must learn to improve our self-fertilization and learn to rely on ourselves.
Tang Bin of the Qing Dynasty once said: "Scholars have the ambition to be self-reliant, and they should pull out the customs, and they should not be generalized and the ups and downs of the world." ”People who have self-fertilization will adjust their mentality and look for the root cause of the problem.
In this way, we will have more courage to face difficulties in order to grasp the root cause of the problem and solve it step by step.
Improve our self-esteem in the face of adversity, maintain a good attitude, and our good fortune will come.
For example, in the TV series "Happiness to Ten Thousand Homes", He Xingfu and her husband came to the big city to work hard.
Faced with a situation different from that in rural areas, He Xingfu and Wang Qinglai, who first came to the city, faced adversity that was difficult to adapt.
He Xingfu actively changed his thinking and actively became familiar with the city. However, her husband Wang Qinglai is very stubborn, unwilling to change, and unwilling to fall behind.
He Xingfu relied on the change of thinking and her ability to deal with problems positively, ushering in her good luck; And Wang Qinglai has always been obsessed with his experience in the countryside, and in the end he couldn't adapt to urban life, so he could only choose to go back.
Everyone will experience sudden troubles, don't worry about yourself first. If you are resilient in the face of adversity, you will reap the rewards of good luck.
Dealing with problems positively is a good quality.
When a person can stick to the right direction and keep chiseling the stone in front of him, he will move towards success little by little.
In the face of the dilemma of having no way out, sometimes you may only need to change your thinking and look at the problem from a different angle, and luck and harvest may be just around the corner.
When people are in adversity, they are too obsessed with their own gains and losses, and they often miss out on more things.
Those who know how to accept gains and losses will reap more happiness.
When a person is attached to things that hurt him, he will be so troubled and resentful that he will not be able to think about other promising things.
And when he lets go, he will find that there are many choices in life.
Life is a journey full of adventures, and you don't have to be obsessed with missing the scenery for a while, because you will always encounter more and more beautiful scenery in the future.
People who know how to let go in times of adversity will be more open-minded. Not only is it good for physical and mental health, but it will also give each other a new opportunity, maybe let go, it means a new opportunity.
"Buddhist Sutra" once said: "To let go is to be reborn, to give up is to have, don't know too late." ”In the face of adversity, if you are always calculating and have too many obsessions, your heart will always feel very tired.
People who can survive adversity will actively improve their tolerance, can afford to take it, can let it go, and good luck will always stand by their side.
Lu Xun once said: "A real warrior dares to face the bleak life and dare to face the dripping blood." ”On the road of life, be a person who can bravely set sail after the rain and sunny weather.
If we are depressed after adversity, we will continue to live in the shadow of the past, and we will not be able to reap the hope of the future.
A true warrior will not be defeated by a single setback.
As the saying goes: "The edge of the sword comes from the sharpening, and the fragrance of the plum blossom comes from the bitter cold." ”People who are getting stronger and stronger are people who grow up and progress in setbacks, and they will eventually move towards a better life.
Be a person with courage, who can smile at life after experiencing difficulties, and good luck is not far from our lives.
February** Dynamic Incentive Program
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