People often ask, why do people have to get married? What exactly are the benefits of getting married?
For those who have not yet entered into marriage, marriage is an unknown adventure, and after marriage, you may find that marriage is not as perfect as you imagined.
Although marriage may not be as perfect as people think, it can also bring some benefits:
First, in the past, you may have been just a person facing the warmth and coldness of the world, bearing everything alone. But now, you have one more person in your life, someone who is willing to face all the storms with you.
Whenever you encounter difficulties, setbacks, helplessness and loss, he will be by your side and give you the most unwavering support. His presence is like a solid backing, giving you the strength to get back on your feet and move on. His encouragement and comfort can help you find a ray of light in your darkest moments and make you understand that you are not alone in the fight.
The other half of your marriage is like a light in your life, guiding you in the direction you are headed. He is not only your emotional sustenance, but also your spiritual support. He makes you understand that in the face of difficulties, there is someone who will stand up with you and face them together. This feeling of mutual support and mutual growth is the most valuable asset that marriage has given us.
So, when you look back at this marriage, you will find that you are no longer alone. You share the joy and the pain. Your destinies have been tightly tied together to create a better future that belongs to you. Marriage makes your life more colorful and meaningful.
Second, a person's lonely "happiness" looks good on the surface, but it always carries some regret and unfulfillment, and there is a hint of "bitterness" in the sweetness; Although the life of the two people is stumbling, although there will be unsatisfactory, but the bitterness gradually tastes "sweet", and there are bitterness and joy. After experiencing marriage, you will have a deeper understanding of love, marriage, and life, and your life will be more fulfilling.
Third, the relationship will be stronger when you go through marriage. The emotions when you are in love are like a storm, full of passion, but also with a hint of blindness. For the sake of our beloved, we may do some impulsive stupid things, but that is only the surface of love. And true love needs to go through the precipitation and baptism of time. Only in the triviality of marriage, from the initial passion to the dullness day after day, from the romance of "the lover's eyes" to seeing all the flaws and imperfections of the other party, in countless contradictions, misunderstandings and disappointments, they cannot be separated and separated, and finally they are together and accompany each other to old age, this is the true love that is deeply rooted in the bottom of the heart.
Love needs to go through the precipitation of the years, spend it together in the wind and rain, and tolerate each other in the trivial. Only in this way can we truly understand each other and discover the shining points and imperfections in each other. In this process, we need to learn to understand, tolerate and communicate with each other. Only in this way can we maintain a long and stable relationship and make it stronger and deeper.
As a result, the feelings that have gone through marriage will be stronger. Because in marriage, we need to face all kinds of challenges and difficulties in life, and we need to support and encourage each other. Only in this process can we truly understand each other and build a deep emotional foundation. Therefore, those feelings that have undergone the baptism of marriage are truly strong and trustworthy.
In short, marriage is an experience, and it is also the only way for a person to mature and transform. In this journey, we need to keep learning, growing, and changing. Only in this way can we better face the challenges and difficulties in life, better understand and tolerate others, and better realize our own life values.