Dual personality, on the surface, there may not be too many people who explicitly express this demand, but in actual life and work, almost everyone has a dual personality, or even multiple personality.
As long as you are in society, you don't need to drive coercion yourself, society itself is the catalyst, and coercion you have to have.
Just imagine, almost everyone, regardless of gender, age, or position, is trying their best to play different roles in the workplace and family, and they are easily switching their dual personalities. The majesty, courage, rudder, humiliation and even humility in the work environment, the cordiality, warmth, and honesty in the family, etc., but the work environment and the family are often opposite, the strong person at work will generally be more gentle in the family, and the person who is often humiliated at work is irritable in the family, showing a strong desire for control, and even hysteria. This is due to the spiritual needs of the human being.
A person's dual personality or multiple personality will also be vividly reflected among different people, and they will behave differently in the face of a status higher than themselves, equal to themselves, or lower than themselves.
There was once a picture of a certain county leader circulating on the Internet, when facing the inspection of the superior leader, groveling, smiling, bent back, chin, hair obediently drooping to the forehead, eyes looking up to the right, in order to prevent the leader from thinking squinting, the eyeballs showed a sincere and powerful ability to focus light, and the eyes never left the nose hair exposed in the leader's nostrils for a moment, and the two front teeth were obediently leaked outside, like a hamster waiting for human feeding, so that the leader always felt his honest smile and incomparable piety.
However, another comparison photo is still the picture of the county leader, going to the countryside to inspect, at this time the personality has been completely reversed, facing the trembling subordinates, the oily back, the back of the hands, the toes are high, the upper lip is slightly upturned, because the head is too high, the eyes have to adjust the angle downward to achieve the purpose of looking ahead and looking into the distance. is somewhat instructive, and the momentum of the dung was ten thousand households.
The dual personality is also reflected in the relationship between acquaintances and strangers, who are originally unrestrained and lively and cheerful in front of acquaintances, but will be cautious and unsmiling in front of strangers.
The dual personality is not only reflected in adults, but also in children, children are originally lively and active in school, with strong self-reliance and ability to deal with things, but at home may feel at a loss for anything, everything is arranged by parents, speaking of which, I think of children, parents, teachers, classmates are the whole society. Parents have an unshirkable responsibility for the formation of a child's dual personality.
For dual personality or multiple personality, I do not approve, this is exactly the social environment and culture caused by the malaise, originally in medicine this itself is a disease, but the environment makes everyone sick, and even without this disease, there is no way to survive, isn't it ridiculous to think about it?
Since 10 years ago, a primary school teacher shouted the slogan "The world is so big, I want to see it" on the Internet, countless young people have gone to Yunnan, Dali, Zhongnan Mountain, and **, but where there are people, there is society, and there is society, and there is no escape from the dual character.
How to truly have your own single personality, and not to switch back and forth between your own personality that you can't distinguish between true and false, is everyone's appeal. Live a simple and pure life, and don't be so tired. How?You and I have to work hard.