Recently, a female blogger complained on the Internet that she was made a pornographic rumor, and many people felt inexplicable when they saw it.
The female blogger found that her colleagues always whispered when they saw her, and there was a strange smell in her eyes, and she suspected that there must be something catty.
When she got off work, she asked a colleague with whom she had a good relationship, and she learned that she had been beaten by a colleague who couldn't beat Huang Yao.
It turned out that it rained heavily a few days ago, and she couldn't get a taxi, so she worked overtime in the company, and the chairman was also working overtime.
In the underground parking lot, she got into the chairman's car, and it happened that this scene was seen by the unfamiliar colleague who came back to get the documents.
At that time, she didn't care about it so much, and the moment she got in the car, it became evidence that someone else made Huang Yao.
When the female blogger knew what had happened, she was very angry, she felt that the chairman was in his fifties, he was a very cultivated person, and he often sent afternoon tea and fruits to employees.
After reading this post, netizens expressed their empathy.
"There are also such people in my office, who spread rumors everywhere. ”
"My colleague spread rumors that I like the rich and handsome, and I like the rich, and I am speechless. ”
"She has watched a lot of TV series, and to put it bluntly, she is jealous. ”
Indeed, the colleague who is not familiar with him is jealous, worried that the female blogger and the chairman will get close and get resources.
Otherwise, where did the sour words of colleagues come from?
I think of a joke on the Internet:
All malice comes from jealousy.
There is a kind of person in the world, that is, he is jealous of people who are better off than himself, and at the same time maliciously slanders and satisfies his inferiority.
In this world, some people slander you and slander you, but they are just unbalanced in their hearts.
Because, envy itself is a kind of admiration, and denigration itself is a kind of envy.
Another female blogger complained that just because she hadn't been home for a year, her grandmother told her that the neighbor said that she had talked about two men outside.
She thought about it for a while, it was she who talked about her boyfriend and posted it on Moments without blocking the neighbor, and the neighbor never talked about her boyfriend, so she gossiped everywhere about her talking about two men at the same time.
Another female netizen said that on her daughter's birthday, she took her daughter to the water park in the city next door to play.
After a while, a few people replied below:
"You can't see that you're already financially free. ”
"It turned out to be a local tyrant, and the family is estimated to have been demolished. ”
In desperation, female netizens blocked these sour people in the circle of friends.
It can be seen that these people have not been well estimated, and the travel photos of female netizens have stung their fragile cranial nerves nested at home.
What's more, some people said confidently in the circle of friends:
"Since you post to Moments, others have the freedom to comment. ”
But freedom is restricted, based on morality, not jealousy, followed by invincing and all kinds of sneering.
As a joke on the Internet:
"I can accept other people's comments, but it doesn't mean that I have to accept other people's slander, yin and yang, and abuse. ”
I remembered what Mr. Luo Xiang saidA person who likes to pour dirty water on others is extremely dirty himself. He couldn't stand the kind of light from others, and the light of others shone on his filth.
As a result, he began to accuse others, despise others, and attack others. The light of others shines on the darkness and hypocrisy of his heart.
He will have a sense of self-loathing towards himself, but this self-loathing will soon turn into accusations against others, and thus he will gain a sense of moral balance.
Why do some people like to slander others behind their backs?
In The Kite Runner, the main character, Amir, was born into a petty bourgeois family, and he grew up with Hassan, the son of his father's servant.
Hassan is upright and brave, while Amir is cowardly and selfish. Amir was jealous that Hassan was especially liked by his father, so he was always jealous of Hassan.
One day, Hassan was violated for protecting Amir, and he did not come forward, but instead of jealousy and evasion, he framed Hassan and kicked him out of his home.
Years later, Amir, unable to bear the guilt in his heart, decides to atone for his sins, and he rescues Hassan's son and embarks on "the path of being a good man again".
Human nature is jealous, and when going through major trials or encountering critical events, ugly human nature will come to the fore.
Some people, while being jealous of others, secretly blame themselves for not having the ability, but do not work hard, and finally make themselves yin and yang.
In real life, some people just can't see that others are better than themselves, so they often talk about right and wrong behind others' backs, and even fabricate right and wrong to slander others.
At present, the Internet has shaped many successful people in a short period of time, many of whom are post-95s or even post-00s, and they create millions of income in a year.
Most people are still struggling with their wages, and they are inevitably frustrated, with a hint of embarrassment.
This is normal.
You are jealous of others because you don't understand them.
I have a classmate who opened **, I thought he was just sitting in front of the computer, quietly waiting for the customer to place an order, you can earn hundreds of thousands of dollars a year, after an in-depth understanding, I know that his small achievements today are ** in countless torments and wandering at four o'clock in the morning.
The sadness of this is something that only he can experience.
Life is actually very fair, others have achieved in this field, but we are more suitable for another track.
Everyone has their own time zone, and there is no need to be jealous of the one who is ahead.
In your time zone, everything is on time.
There is another kind of person in the world, in the face of excellent others, he is secretly jealous of others in his heart, but he does not slander others, he secretly learns humbly behind his back and approaches him. **10,000 Fans Incentive Plan