On February 22, on a construction site in Hebei, a special scene attracted widespread attention from netizens. A father takes his son with him and carries heavy cement on a construction site. The father's purpose was clear, he wanted his son to learn the consequences of being addicted to games and the importance of learning through first-hand experience.
According to the description of witnesses, the sun was scorching that day, and the father and son were sweating on the construction site. The son was visibly exhausted, sitting on a cement bag panting. The father looked at his son, with a hint of helplessness and reproach in his tone: "What is the strength of your fight against the king?" Is it easy to hold a pen, or is it easy to carry this? ”
The boy lowered his head and remained silent. He may have realized that the hardships of real life are in stark contrast to the excitement and lightness of the game world. And the father saw his son's reaction, although he was a little angry, but he did not give up the opportunity to educate. He pulled up his son and urged: "Hurry up and move, and show your strength to fight the king." ”
After this scene was filmed and uploaded to the Internet, it quickly sparked a heated discussion. Some netizens expressed sympathy and support for his father, believing that he worked hard to support his family, while the child was addicted to games and did not understand his hard work. They hope that the child will learn from this experience, realize the importance of learning, and start on the right track.
There are also netizens who have different views. They believe that gaming is not the only cause of a child's poor learning, and that even without play, the child may be distracted for other reasons. These netizens called for a more holistic view of children's learning, rather than simply blaming the game.
Some netizens compared the game to the modern "opium", believing that the game has caused great harm to China's younger generation. They called on the state to strengthen the regulation of the gaming industry and limit the phenomenon of over-indulgence in games.
On this issue, I don't think it can be generalized. It is true that games have the potential to affect children's learning and life, but it cannot be denied that games themselves also have their positive sides. The key is how to guide children to view play correctly and how to find a balance between play and learning.
I think this father has good intentions for his approach, and I hope that by letting his children experience the hardships of life, he will realize the importance of learning. We also need to pay attention to the feelings and needs of our children. After all, coercion and repression are often not long-term solutions, and we should pay more attention to communication and guidance with children.
As parents, we should pay attention to our children's interests and growth needs, and help them establish correct values and outlook on life. We also need to understand the psychological and behavioral characteristics of children, and educate them in a more scientific and reasonable way.
And for the game industry, it should also assume more social responsibility. They need to develop healthier and more beneficial gaming products to provide more abundant and diverse entertainment options for teenagers. ** and all sectors of society also need to strengthen the supervision and regulation of the game industry to ensure the healthy and orderly development of the game market.
Education is a complex and lengthy process that requires the joint efforts of all of us. In this process, we need to pay attention to children's needs and feelings, guide them to view play and learning correctly, and help them grow into a new generation with a sense of responsibility and responsibility.
What I want to say is that both fathers and children deserve our understanding and respect. Let's look at this issue with a more open and inclusive mind, and work together for the growth and future of our children.
The father takes his son, who is addicted to games, to the construction site