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In today's society, despite the progress of the times and the renewal of concepts, there are still some parents who have an attitude of excessive intervention in their children's marriage and love issues. Recently, a 30-year-old girl cried to her late grandmother about her mother's pressure to urge marriage, which attracted widespread attention. The woman was under pressure from dozens of blind dates, and even faced the extreme situation of her mother threatening her with suicide, which is undoubtedly a serious challenge to the rights and free will of the modern individual.
We need to make it clear that marriage is an important decision in everyone's life, and it is related to a person's life happiness, quality of life and even life planning. In this pluralistic society, the choice of marriage should be based on personal emotional needs, values and life goals, rather than simply catering to social or family expectations. The 30-year-old woman's inner pain and struggle in the face of her mother's pressure to marry is undoubtedly a concrete embodiment of this involuntary and self-willed view of marriage.
The author believes that parents should respect their children's autonomy in marriage and love. Every adult has the right to find and build their own happiness at their own pace and rhythm, rather than being forced into blind date activities without emotional foundation. The woman's mother forced her daughter to marry through constant pressure and extreme measures, which may not only destroy the family relationship between mother and daughter, but also bring irreparable psychological trauma to her daughter, which is a disregard and trampling on the child's independent personality and life choice.
Parents should understand that there is not only one pattern of happiness definition, nor is it the same as "early marriage". The father, who said that he would not force his son to marry, showed his respect for his children's individual worth and acceptance of the pluralistic understanding of happiness. He knows that whether his son is married or not, as long as the child can find his own way of life and feel happy and satisfied, it is true happiness.
In the author's opinion, whether it is a 30-year-old lady who is under pressure to marry, or the son who is given the freedom of marriage and love by his father, the situation they are facing has sounded the alarm for us - respecting the marriage and love choices of children and breaking the stereotyped perception of marriage by traditional concepts is a problem that our society needs to face up to and urgently solve. After all, everyone's happiness is unique, and no one has the right to make major decisions about a lifetime's happiness on behalf of others.