There are many things in life that we cannot change, and for these things, we can only choose to accept or change ourselves. If you want to change yourself, you can't do the following ten things, only in this way can you get better and better, and live better and better! No one can escape all kinds of unsatisfactory things in life, but we can choose how to face them, how to make trade-offs, how to grow and change, let's strive to become stronger and more resilient! 1. Don't get entangled with bad people and bad things, and would rather fight a fierce boxing match with a wise man than argue with a fool, because time is precious and waiting for us to explore a better life. Don't get caught up in bad people and bad things, waste your energy and time, and instead of arguing with the wrong people about what is righteous, you should keep them to your own righteous things. Stopping in front of someone who doesn't understand is as futile as telling a blind person about color. To be human, you don't need to be with those meaningless things and people. Go away and look for a better direction and life. 
2. Insist on learning, don't stop progressing, the society continues to develop, and the times continue to progress. If you don't keep learning and don't move forward, you will continue to fall behind and eventually be eliminated. We must face challenges bravely, keep learning and progressing, keep up with the pace of the times, and become a better version of ourselves. Only in this way will our lives be meaningful and worthwhile. Let's move forward for a better future. Every step must be determined to move forward and never stop until we achieve our dreams. 3. Be yourself, don't blindly imitate others to see that others are living well and working well, and don't be jealous. And don't blindly imitate other people's lifestyles and methods of success, because they may not be right for you. You can learn from the experience of others, but you must learn to be yourself, because only being yourself is your greatest success in life. Success is not given by others, but created by yourself, so you need to choose a path that suits you to meet your own life. 
4. Don't be lazy, don't be too idle, lazy and idle, is the easiest way to abolish a person. Don't be too hasty in life, but don't be too lazy either. If you have a lot of time, make use of it, don't choose a life that is too comfortable, and go for it! You have to make a difference in life, otherwise, what is the value of your existence? Let's breathe endless vitality into our lives and strive for it, no matter how difficult it may be. 5. Don't be afraid to make mistakesEveryone has shortcomings, and no one is perfect. It's common to make mistakes, but there's no need to be afraid of making them. The courage to correct mistakes is the most important quality of a person, because only by knowing how to correct mistakes can we continue to make progress. If a person is always timid and cowering, he will often miss the opportunity to change himself, and in the end he can only achieve nothing. Just as no one is perfect, we must not be ourselves, and we do not have to be afraid of making mistakes, because this is human nature. Therefore, we should think carefully after making mistakes and grow with mistakes, which is the right way to live. 
6. Don't be afraid of being hurt and refuse to start emotional, the most frightening thing is to be hurt. In real life, many people have been hurt in the past, so they have resentment in their hearts, they can't let go, and they are immersed in the pain for a long time. Such a situation not only torments oneself, but also lets the good times be let down. Love often hurts, but we can't be afraid to start because of it. If you miss an opportunity just because you are afraid of possible problems, you are just getting along with yourself. We must be more open to love, because love can make our lives meaningful and full of sunshine. If we don't give up, we don't let go easily, as long as our hearts are full of gratitude and love, we can overcome the pain, transcend the past, and move towards a better future. 7. Don't waste time explaining to others that people who understand you don't need you to explain, and people who don't understand you, no matter how much explanation you have, it will be in vain. As a human being, you should not waste time explaining yourself to others. People who believe in you, no matter what you go through, will give you the greatest support and precious trust; People who don't believe in you, no matter how you behave, will only see everything about you as a disguise. Let us cherish those who truly understand themselves, live up to the time, and never forget the original intention. 
8. Don't just choose the road to walk The journey of life is full of twists and turns, some roads are easy to walk, some roads are difficult to walk, but we can't just choose the easy road to walk, and dare not take the difficult road. We must dare to take risks, have the courage to struggle, take those easy roads to go better, and also strive to walk those difficult roads. Only in this way can we make people's lives more beautiful, full of infinite possibilities and gains. Let us bravely face the challenges of life, continue to pursue our dreams, and embark on a wonderful life path. 9. Don't dwell on the pastEveryone has the past, the past has good and not good, and those that are not good are often easier for people to remember, but we can't dwell on the past. The past is gone, irretrievable, and if you don't move forward, you won't be happy in the future. May you bravely face the past and cherish the present, so that the door to the future can be opened. Let the past become the past, in order to live the present and achieve a better future! 
10. Don't pin your happiness on others Some people are really stupid and always pin their happiness on others, and as a result, they will live unhappily for the rest of their lives. In fact, your happiness is not in others, but in yourself, and you can only have more happiness if you manage yourself well. People must always understand that happiness needs to be created by themselves, not by others! May you be positive and optimistic and have a good time!