At the end of the year, various fashion celebrations and awards parties continued one after another.
On the red carpet, female stars competed with each other.
However, some netizens discovered that Angelababy Yang Ying, who was once in the limelight, disappeared.
Her "collapsed house" began at the end of September last year.
Some netizens revealed that she watched "Crazy Horse Show" (French erotic song and dance club) abroad.
Not long after, Yang Ying was banned, variety show footage was cut, and endorsement was canceled.
Overnight, it was boycotted by internal entertainment.
Not long ago, she tried to make a comeback abroad and appeared on the cover of a magazine in Singapore.
The response was still mediocre, and there wasn't much splash.
Many people said: Yang Ying, who left Huang Xiaoming, is no longer good.
But I am not surprised to see Yang Ying's current situationHer abandonment by traffic has been foreshadowed for a long time.
What you get from others is empty after all
The divorce of female celebrities is mostly another starting point for their careers to take off.
Yang Ying is an exception.
Since divorcing Huang Xiaoming, her career has plummeted.
On the contrary, it was Huang Xiaoming, after tearing off the greasy label, he re-circled a large wave of powder.
Why is there such a gap?
From Yang Ying's experience of becoming famous, you can know the answer:Her popularity depends on others.
In her early years, she was just a small model.
Later, he went to Japan to develop, and after returning to China after gaining a little fame, he was not well known.
The turning point came in 2009.
That year, she met Huang Xiaoming, and the two fell in love the following year**.
The frequent discussions have opened up Yang Ying's popularity, and her resources have also visibly improved.
starred in the first female in the movie and signed a contract with Huayi to enter the mainland market.
In just a few years, he has been promoted from a supporting role to the top, and even ranked among the Forbes rich list.
Everything came quickly and easily.
In 2014, Yang Ying joined "Run, Brother", and she gained a large number of fans.
Traffic, fame, and wealth are all there, and love has also borne fruit.
In 2015, she married Huang Xiaoming, a century wedding that cost 200 million, and the scenery is unlimited.
After marriage, his career took off.
starred in the works of great directors Wong Kar-wai and Tsui Hark, and partnered with superstars such as Tony Leung and Takeshi Kaneshiro.
In addition to acting, he holds various endorsements, occupies the covers of popular magazines, and wins awards constantly.
Behind the soaring popularity, she had a wrong judgment of the situation.
At an awards event, Huang Xiaoming was carrying a skirt for Yang Ying in the back, and she walked in front without looking back.
looks like a big heroine.
It's a pity that the posture of the big heroine collapsed after the divorce.
The popularity of variety shows has declined, and the resources of new dramas have been downgraded, and only the red carpet is still a bit topical.
Now, it has completely disappeared from the public eye.
After leaving the marriage, the door of capital, traffic, and connections was also closed to her at the same time.
It's embarrassing, but it's also very realistic, what you get from others can be easily taken away by others.
Writer Li Shanglong once said:
"If you are not strong yourself, there is no use in socializing, only an equivalent exchange can you get reasonable help. ”If you don't have enough ability and accumulation, no matter how powerful your background is, you can't rely on it, and no matter how many connections you have, it will disappear.
Yang Ying's career is high and low, ostensibly because of divorce, but in fact, it is caused by herself.
The more accustomed you are to lying down and winning, the more likely you are to lose your life.
Your strength is your greatest confidence
The ship of the entertainment industry, the old people are replaced by the new, and the ups and downs are normal.
The difference is that some people have the ability to adapt to change, make adjustments quickly, and stabilize themselves.
For example, Zhao Liying.
started from playing tricks, no matter how small the role was, she did her best.
In martial arts scenes, there is never a stand-in, and it is often covered with scars.
The accumulated acting skills gave her the opportunity to realize the transformation from a supporting role to a leading role.
After becoming famous, she did not slack off at all.
At every stage of her life, she has continued to refine herself and choose the right role.
When she was young, she played a sweet girl; After maturity, she plays the heroine; Nowadays, I am starting to get in touch with realistic themes.
Without the advantage of age, the drama road is getting wider and wider, and it is unbeatable among the 85 flowers.
It's not because she's lucky, but she has a clear understanding of being an actor:Always speak with your work
The entertainment industry is a place to look at faces, and it is a place to rely on strength.
This is exactly what Yang Ying lacks.
When the resources were at their best, she plunged into it, but she never thought about improving herself.
Not only that, but with a perfunctory attitude, he repeatedly challenged the audience's bottom line.
has a sky-high salary, but only stares at the screen.
In the face of doubts, he replied directly: I am worth the price.
In the interview, he said: "Whether you can be photographed or not, you have to sit in your place." ”
As soon as I turned around, when filming "Lonely Fang", as the heroine, I didn't go to the set, so I could only cut out the picture in the later stage.
has starred in so many works, but none of them can handle it.
Yang Ying didn't want to improve her acting skills in the past, and in the face of doubts, she said bluntly:
"Actually, I don't think I've been completely successful along the way, and if it had gone well, I would have won a Grand Slam by now. ”
Since her debut, she has been consuming her credit as an actress.
resident variety shows, ratings continue to decline, newcomers continue to join, and her position is gradually marginal.
has been in the entertainment industry for so many years, with no works to accompany him, and no other skills.
Once the outside resources are withdrawn, there is no place for her.
The excitement ended, and all she was left with was scraps of paper all over the floor.
A beauty who has no reverence for her career and has always acted as an embellishment will go downhill sooner or later.
On the contrary, people who have their own strength, even if they are silent for a while, can bloom again.
For example, Tang Yan. She has always been ridiculed for being unambitious, and rarely participated in film and television dramas after getting married.
Some time ago, with a stunning return to "Flowers", with countless praises, he returned to the center of the stage.
On the one hand, she has works in the past and has a halo on her body.
On the other hand, she is willing to work her career, and she did not hesitate to spend three years filming a film.
It seems to be lucky, but in fact, behind it is strength and hard work.
The Red First relies on opportunity, and the Red First needs the strength and skills to match.
It's a pity that Yang Ying understood too late.
The best nobleman is always yourself
I like a quote very much:
"What others give you is just a leaf, and you can make a big tree yourself to enjoy the shade. ”The biggest shortcut in life is to improve yourself.
This is true in the entertainment industry, and the same is true for the lives of ordinary people, there is no room for any luck.
Wang Shimin, the founder of Youcore, shared a story.
When his wife was studying for an MBA, one of his classmates was particularly keen to participate in various activities.
Dinners, evenings, and competitions are never absent, and 3-4 days a week are set aside for socializing.
In this regard, the student's explanation is: "Isn't studying MBA just accumulating contacts? ”
And she did.
At school, many people knew her, and she was proud to have met professors.
Who knows, when there was a mistake in the graduation defense, there was no one to help, and it was postponed for a year.
In contrast, Wang Shimin's wife spends all her time studying.
She is diligent and hardworking, not only achieving excellent grades, but also winning the recognition of her teachers and the respect of her classmates.
When there is a mistake in graduation**, her classmates are willing to lend a hand and help her graduate.
Everyone wants to take shortcuts, but how can there be so many shortcuts?
What you get by opportunism can also be easily lost, and you can fight for it in a down-to-earth manner.
Even if you rely on connections and shortcuts, you can get a better life temporarilyBut when the waves of life come and go, it is inevitable to panic because they do not have the ability to cope with the trials.
Just like Yang Ying. In the entertainment industry where traffic is dominant, everything comes easily, she was deceived and gave up her efforts.
When the tide of the flow recedes, the tuyere disappears, and the original shape appears, only to find that it is only himself who swims naked.
She was undoubtedly lucky.
Meet the nobles of life, have the top resources, and enjoy the glory in the center of the stage.
It's just that she also single-handedly created the ending that has disappeared without a trace.
No matter how female stars fall, they can live a good life, and there will still be fans.
Ordinary women need real skills and continuous self-improvement.
Work hard and steadfastly.
What work brings is self-confidence, dignity, a sense of value, and the confidence of life.
You have to have the strength to make money.
Even if you make a small amount of money, you must always maintain the ability to make money, and only with money can you have the initiative.
Liang Wendao once said:
"It is very important for a woman to have the ability to live a good life on her own, and to have something that no one else can take away. ”Opportunities depend on fighting, but fate must be written by oneself, and the way out is always oneself.
May you have luck and strength in 2024.