The first trick: dare to look into the eyes of others and increase self-confidence
The first step to make others dare not bully you is to dare to look into the eyes of others, not to drift or dodge. Some people are afraid to look into the eyes of others when communicating with others, and appear to lack confidence. However, this attitude will make the other person instantly see you and lose respect for you. Therefore, you need to learn to maintain calm and confident eye contact, which can show your confidence and determination. When you communicate with others, you should maintain a posture of looking into the eyes of the other person, express your confidence and firmness, and let others understand that you are a strong and confident person, so that they will not dare to bully you easily.
The second trick: dare to make the conversation deadlocked, awkward and paused
When you're faced with some situation where someone else needs to meet your requirements, daring to pause the conversation is an effective strategy. For example, if you need someone to pay you back 20,000 dollars, and they haven't kept their promise, you can just say what you want and pause for more than three seconds. This way, he will be forced to start a conversation or respond to your request, otherwise the scene will become very awkward. Embarrassment may not be a big deal for you, but the other person has to face it. By creating an atmosphere of awkwardness and pause, you can force the other person to think and respond, thus defending your rights.
The third trick: dare to ask and refuse
When communicating with others, be bold in asking for your own and rejecting others' requests. For example, when you need someone to hand you a piece of paper, you can politely tell him, "Please hand me this piece of paper." Or, when confronted with unreasonable suggestions, you can also directly express your rejection. A person who is afraid to make demands and reject others is often seen as weak and useless in the eyes of others. On the contrary, when you make clear demands and firmly reject others, it will make others recognize your firm attitude and not dare to bully you easily.
The fourth trick: control your emotions and keep four secrets
When communicating with others, be careful to keep your emotions in check. Don't talk about your ordeal and hardships when you're meeting people, and don't talk about your finances and family matters when you meet people. Speak calmly and calmly, without showing joy or sorrow, stammering or nervousness. Good and bad do not need to resort to words, joy and anger do not need to be spoken. Keep these four secrets, that is, don't talk about things you regret, don't talk about unfortunate experiences, don't talk about money, and don't talk about private family matters. By controlling your emotions, you can protect yourself from many disasters and right and wrong.
The fifth trick: speak with a loud and firm voice
When you choose to express your views, have a loud and firm voice. Use affirmative sentences to get your point across and avoid using ambiguous or vague words. It is only when you are unwavering and steadfast that others will be influenced by you. Loud and assertive expressions can inspire awe, while slurring or hesitant expressions tend to give the impression of weakness. When communicating with others, keep a firm and loud tone so that others realize your determination and confidence, making it easier to earn their respect.