From "Little Cotton Jacket" to "Steel Wool", Reflection on Marriage Education: Is Distance Really That Important?
Recently, an incident occurred in Shanghai that made people feel a lot of emotion. Before his daughter got married, a father was reluctant to go up and hug him, but his daughter refused. The daughter said with a disgusted face: "It's only 6 kilometers away from home." This scene sparked heated discussions among the majority of netizens, some lamented the greatness of father's love, and some questioned the current situation of marriage education.
First of all, we need to think about why modern society pays less and less attention to marriage education. Many families tend to place too much emphasis on material conditions and ignore the preciousness of emotional bonds and affection. 6 km may not be too far for some, but for others, it can mean family separation and the inability to be with loved ones all the time. It is also a reflection of the pressures and dilemmas faced by people in modern society, who have to leave their hometowns and relatives in order to pursue a better life.
In addition, we need to recognize that the relationship between father and daughter is not simply close and close, but a deep emotional bond. This father organizes his daughter's wedding, which embodies the greatness and selflessness of fatherly love. And the daughter's indifferent attitude towards her father may reflect the estrangement between them. This situation should cause us to reflect on how to strengthen the cultivation and attention of family affection in marriage education, rather than only focusing on material conditions and distance.
I believe that we should re-examine the content and method of marriage education. While emphasizing material conditions, we should also pay attention to emotional exchanges and the cultivation of family affection. The education sector and families should pay more attention to young people's views on marriage and family and help them develop correct values and outlook on life. At the same time, we should also call on all sectors of society to work together to create a more harmonious and warm environment for young people to grow up.
In the comment section, I sincerely invite everyone to share their views and opinions. Let's contribute to the development and progress of wedding education together!
When the daughter got married, the father was reluctant to come forward and hug but was rejected