Minglan 's biological mother Wei Shuyi, who was born in a farming family, had to be sold into the Sheng family as a concubine because of a sudden change in her family.
Although she was forced to be a concubine, she was unwilling to put down her body to compete with other women for favor, so she was very unfavored in the Sheng family, and her life was very difficult.
But no matter how difficult the days were, she never let go of her arrogance and arrogance.
Through her education of Minglan It is not difficult to see that she is a woman with good conduct, and is extremely smart and talented, coupled with her beauty, if she wants to compete for favor, Lin Yushuang may not be an opponent.
Although Wei Xiaoniang is a concubine, her style of behavior is the style of the lady in the main house, she never puts her mind on competing for favor, but thinks about how to educate her daughter well and seek a good future for her daughter as much as possible.
Although she has only been with her daughter for eight years, she taught Minglan the most simple way of survival, and she hopes that her daughter will have a safe and smooth life.
Clause. 1. Don't come out of the way.
She knew very well that in this kind of deep mansion compound, it would be difficult for her to survive if she did not learn to be cautious if she gave birth to a concubine who was not welcomed.
Therefore, she always taught Minglan to learn to hide clumsiness. This also became Minglan later living habits, although Minglan always stammered when she spoke, always seemed to have no confidence and hesitated, and deliberately pretended to be stupid and stupid, but her heart was like a mirror.
Clause. Second, the picture of gratitude.
In this deep mansion compound, some people are used to worshipping high and low, Minglan has no biological mother, and she is not favored by her father, so naturally someone will bully her.
Therefore, as long as she doesn't bully her and doesn't embarrass her people, even if she is kind to her, she remembers the kindness of others to her deeply, and as long as she has the opportunity, she will repay them one by one.
This good habit has made Minglan a good person.
Although Rulan is a concubine, she doesn't have any bad intentions, she is willing to play with Minglan and like to talk to Minglan in her heart, Minglan is very grateful, and often makes a small object, or when she gives gifts to others, she doesn't forget to make one more for Rulan, and the relationship between the two becomes closer.
During the scientific expedition of the two elder brothers, she gave her own knee pads, which won the favor of Mrs. Wang.
In this hospital, her grandmother doesn't hate her, her daughter-in-law is willing to be friends with her, her brothers like her very much, and even her eldest sister, who has been married, often misses her, and Minglan has a much better life.
Clause. 3. The greatest in life.
When Wei Xiaoniang gave birth to her second child, she was harmed by Lin Yushuang's pit and caused a difficult birth, and when she was finally dying, she told Minglan that she must live, and there is hope for everything if she is alive.
She knew that she could no longer shelter her daughter, so she used her last strength to force Minglan to change her name to "Little Niang", not to call her mother again, and to ask Minglan to promise to go to her grandmother's house.
She knows that only with the blessing of her grandmother can her daughter live well in the future!
Wei Xiaoniang only accompanied her daughter for eight years, and in these short eight years, although she did not let her daughter live a life of abundant food and clothing, she taught her a lot of skills necessary for survival, cultivated her daughter's strong heart, and gave her the most precious things in the world.
It was the way of survival that Wei Xiaoniang taught her daughter, coupled with her grandmother's careful raising and teaching, that allowed Minglan to deal with all kinds of difficulties in life with ease.
also made Minglan revenge for her biological mother with the support of a strong heart, so that Lin Yushuang, who killed her mother, got the end she deserved.
Lin Yushuang didn't know until she died, Minglan taught by the weak Wei Shuyi seemed to be weak, but her heart was so strong, so strong that she shuddered!
Written at the end: it is better to teach a man to fish than to teach him to fish", to be truly responsible for the child is to teach the child the ability to survive, rather than just leaving the child a lot of money.
Without teaching children the ability to manage wealth, it is useless to leave more money for children. February** Dynamic Incentive Program