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Vinny Sha Tu Nisha
Hi, I'm Nisha. When I was young, whether it was a man or a woman, it was vigorous to fall in love. The older you get, the smaller the movement of love, it's not that you don't love anymore, but that life is too tired, and you don't have the energy to fall in love.
The love of a middle-aged woman is calm on the surface, but there is an undercurrent underneath. They have experienced the passion and impulse of youth, and they have also tasted the precipitation and accumulation of years, and they have a more mature and rational understanding of love.
When a middle-aged woman "identifies with you", she may not say "I love you" outright, but will convey her heart through a series of acquiescing acts. These acquiescences, like the minutiae of life, may seem insignificant, but they contain deep love.
1. Acquiescing to your approach is the acceptance of the heart
Middle-aged women, who tend to maintain a certain sense of distance in social situations, do not easily let strangers into their private sphere.
However, when you approach her, she does not show disgust or discomfort, but leans slightly to the side so that you can hear her voice more clearly, and this acquiescence is the beginning of her heart's acceptance of you.
In the company, she was always the one who arrived early. And you also habitually arrive early, just to meet her in the tranquility of the early morning. Every time she sees you, a hint of surprise flashes in her eyes.
You'll meet in the pantry, and she'll make you a cup of coffee, and you'll take it as if it were a natural thing to do. These seemingly casual proximities are all proof that she acquiesced in your entry into her life.
2. Acquiescing in your concern is emotional sustenance
Under the pressure of life, middle-aged women often need to take on multiple roles, they are not only the elite in the workplace, but also the pillar of the family. In their busy lives, they crave care and understanding.
When you care about her life and her work, she does not show impatience or disgust, but takes the initiative to share her joys and sorrows with you, and this acquiescence is a manifestation of her emotional pinning on you. She sees you as someone you can trust and rely on, and is willing to share her joys and sorrows with you.
I remember that time when she was sick and you sent a message asking about her condition. Instead of simply replying "it's okay" or "thank you", she tells you in detail about her symptoms and what medications she has taken.
When she learned that you were coming to visit after work, she did not refuse, but told you the address of your home and reminded you to be careful on the road. At that moment, you understand that she has accepted you emotionally and is looking forward to your arrival.
3. Acquiescing in your company is the sharing of life
Companionship is the most affectionate confession, and even more so for middle-aged women. In their spare time, they long for someone to be by their side and spend those dull and good times together.
When you offer to accompany her to do something, she does not hesitate or shirk, but readily accepts and shows joy and anticipation, and this acquiescence is a sign that she is willing to share her life with you.
Every weekend, you'll meet up for a walk in the park. She'll prepare fruit and snacks ahead of time, and you'll bring your camera to capture the moment. In the park, you will enjoy the scenery and talk about life together.
She will tell you about her past, her dreams, and her hopes for the future. And you'll share your stories and ideas. These times seem to have become a tacit understanding and habit between you, and she has long been accustomed to your company.
Fourth, acquiescing to your plan is the expectation of the future
Middle-aged women are more pragmatic and long-term when it comes to relationships, and they will not easily fall into a relationship with no future.
When you talk to her about your plans for the future, she doesn't show surprise or uneasiness, but listens carefully and gives her own suggestions and thoughts, and this acquiescence is a sign that she is looking forward to your future.
She has included you in her life blueprint and is willing to work with you to create a better future. This acquiescence, like the warm sun of winter, illuminates the way forward for you and her, and makes you full of confidence and hope for the future.
In an in-depth conversation, you mentioned your plans and goals for the future. Instead of interrupting you or laughing at your ideas for being unrealistic, she listens carefully and gives her own opinions.
She tells you that she has had similar dreams and plans and encourages you to work hard to achieve them. At the same time, she also shared with you her hopes and wishes for the future.
You find that each other's goals and ideals are so compatible that it seems to exist for each other. This tacit understanding and resonance have strengthened your confidence in each other's feelings and future.
Conclusion:
Love is not the patent of young people, and the love of middle-aged people can also be gorgeous and colorful. When a middle-aged woman conveys her heart through acquiescence, don't ignore these hidden signals.
They may not confess with flowery rhetoric, but there is a deep love in each of their acquiescences. If you also have a crush on her, you might as well be bold and take the initiative. Remember, love requires courage and action to sustain and nurture it.