When I meditate today, my thoughts unconsciously drifted to what I had experienced today. Yesterday, my daughter-in-law cried for a day because of homesickness and the matter of wanting a house in Yanjiao, and she went out for a walk in the middle of the night and stayed in a hotel.
Although I know that she is just angry for a while, and because of the pressure of anxiety, I want to find a channel to vent, and I feel that there is nothing wrong, but I am still nervous in my heart, after all, it is considered to be a runaway from home. I am also worried about her physical and mental state, I wake up several times in the middle of the night, and my heart will beat faster, but reason tells me that she must have gone to live in a hotel, and now I can't find her when I go out to look for her, it is better to let her think about it, precipitate her heart and slowly get out of the trap of the heart.
Sure enough, at 8 o'clock the next morning, when I came back home from running and writing, she came back by herself, came back and walked around the kitchen to find a piece of bread to eat, as if she was not full, sat on the sofa and read a book, and said to me, "Why don't you make breakfast?" I said, "The girl hasn't gotten up yet, so let's do it when she does." She was obviously a little hungry and said, "Do it now"; Also, she was lying in bed yesterday and didn't eat.
So I started cooking, and called the girl up to eat together, threatening her to get up quickly, and said, "If you don't get up again, your mother will run away again, get up and eat quickly." In this way, the family chatted about today's arrangements while eating, and the mother and mother were going out to shampoo and cut their hair, and then prepare New Year's goods.
After eating out at noon, her daughter changed into a newly bought Hanfu under the reminder of her mother and happily went out to play. Before I arrived at the department store, my daughter said that she wanted to eat Haidilao, and I still muttered in my heart: Just eat a little bit, how can you come up to eat Haidilao, and you can't spend hundreds of dollars on a meal. So he said, "Look at other snack bars", and when they arrived on the 6th floor of the department store, the two went straight to Haidilao.
The service of this Haidilao is really good, as soon as you go, someone will lead the way, several service staff will ask for warmth, and the fruit plate will be served, and help put things; Serving us is a sophomore girl who is studying in Heilongjiang University's accounting major, going home on vacation and having nothing to do to work, the little girl is clever in her heart, always asking what she needs, is this okay, seeing that we are wearing glasses and taking a mirror cloth, sealing our clothes with a sealed bag so as not to attach the smell of shabu-shabu to the clothes, and then bring us an apron, and even put it on for me, so that I am still a little embarrassed. Seeing such a youthful girl serving on the side, it feels good to eat naturally.
There are people at the table next to them for their birthdays, and waiters give them activities, a few beautiful waiters are still singing beautiful songs, I looked sideways at the table are a few big men, looking a little restrained, but the inner touch is naturally overflowing, this is the shrewdness of Haidilao, customers come to eat is a beautiful experience.
Haidilao ordering is basically half and one portion, **of course, half a portion is half of the amount of one and **half price, so that it is convenient for customers to choose more styles, we also chose a pass, and in the end they were full or there was a lot left, I patiently ate all the rest there, and they went out to line up to do nail art.
Originally, I thought there was something to do a nail art, but before getting a nail art, I could wait in the comfortable and spacious environment of the lounge area, and there was a waiter who poured drinks and served fruits and snacks, so I sat here and enjoyed the drinks and snacks, and it was very pleasant. The drink is orange juice, it tastes good, I don't know how many glasses I drank, and the waiter took the initiative to pour it for you, I always feel very enjoyable, time flies very fast, and before I know it, it will be time for the girl to do the nail art.
I took a closer look at their manicures, the girl stretched out her slender fingers, the nail technician made a smooth operation, everyone seemed to be immersed in a feeling of beauty, I also saw that the girl and the nail technician were immersed in a middle of enjoyment, and the daughter-in-law was also watching in surprise next to me.
When doing nail art, they are full of expressions of appreciating a baby, and I am also deeply moved, moved by this beautiful atmosphere, a bearded uncle can also be infected, it seems that Haidilao has done a lot of kung fu.
The girl who made the perfect nail had to pat her own hand, and then the girl proposed to put the hands of the three of them together, and I naturally put them at the bottom, the daughter-in-law's hand was on my hand, and the daughter's white and bright hand with red nails was particularly conspicuous above us.
I didn't feel anything at the time, but I wrote that my eyes were slightly moist at this time, how rare the fate between relatives is, and how happy it is to be able to grow up with our children together!
Usually busy with her livelihood, busy with her daughter's studies, always running forward, her heart is always full, to get this, to get that, constantly chasing; It is better to let go of the impetuous heart and make room for a comfortable life for the soul.
Later, I took them out for leisure and entertainment from time to time, giving the soul a comfortable space to enjoy beauty and learn to be grateful; Slowly let go of those fame and fortune, and look for the most real touch in your heart.