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At the end of the Spring Festival holiday, the "post-holiday syndrome" accompanied by anxiety and nervousness made my whole state not good, and I began to worry about my daughter's study, because the unit has been in a bad situation for the past two years, and I also began to worry about my work ......
No, school is about to start, my daughter's classmates asked her to watch the movie "Flying Life 2", this Spring Festival, I have accompanied her to watch two Spring Festival movies "Article 20" and "Hot and Hot", and then watch it with her classmates, just watch three, she has a lot of study plans that have not been completed, from the heart, I don't want her to watch it, but, obviously, she wants to go, excited, happy beyond words, and said that her classmates helped her buy all the movie tickets, I was inexplicably irritated and said to her: "Compare with your classmates at the beginning of school, You're at the top of the list of movies this holiday", my tone was very bad, but she replied like no one: "That's not necessarily" ......Eventually, she was sent to the mall with her dad (we also went to the neighborhood to do some errands). She talked to me along the way, I didn't bother to pay attention, and I was a little impatient, I realized it, but I did it anyway.
After getting out of the car, the child's father said, "Can you stop being anxious?" Your anxiety makes it impossible for us to communicate normally. I said, "Look at her, when she talks about playing, she is happy and excited, when she talks about studying, when she talks about studying, she can't implement her plan, and she has ...... my work."He said: "There are some things that can't be forced, and if you are so anxious, don't want other children with worse grades?" And your job, if you can do it, you just need to change it, that is, the salary is high, the conditions are good or bad, can you still not find it? ”
I understood that what he said was reasonable, and I didn't say anything more. Adjust it yourself, after all, being swayed by bad emotions is always not a way, and it can't guide the child, this is also mental internal friction, or not. In the new year, read more, record more, work hard, have a little more positive energy, and leave the rest to God.