Dear friends, I would like to share with you the problem of "unclear" in interpersonal communication.
First of all, we need to know that as the relationship between men and women becomes deeper and deeper, there will be a special affection between them, which is called "ambiguity". At this moment, you may find that this is a relationship that is beyond the average friend, but it has not yet reached the level of love. Although some people may feel confused or don't know what to do, it is actually a very normal emotional condition.
In such a situation, both husband and wife often want to get to know each other more deeply, so as to test whether the relationship between the two people can be sustainable and whether there can be a good outcome. During this time, the two people will become more attentive, keep in touch often, and will also exchange small gifts to show their concern. So, uncertain feelings can sometimes be sweeter and happier than feelings in relationships, but if the relationship develops well, they will become a couple. On the contrary, if it does not go well, this ambiguous relationship will also end abruptly.
Sometimes, however, in an uncertain relationship, we encounter another situation where the other person is not as positive as we think. Although he would write us back or joke with us, he wouldn't have been in contact with us if we hadn't visited him. So, why did he do this, and what did he think? In fact, if a man is not actively pursuing a woman, then he probably has two reasons.
First of all, maybe he didn't take us seriously at all. Although he values our relationship and wants to associate with us, he doesn't like us. He may think we're good friends, but he's not interested in building new relationships. As an outsider, we should be aware that everyone has their own right to associate with others, and that when it comes to getting married, people will make their own choices based on a variety of reasons. And some of us don't like us, maybe they just like the feeling of uncertainty rather than decide to find their other half.
Second, maybe he just wanted to play around with us. Even if a man likes us, it is impossible to resist a woman's **. They love to socialize with women and like that pleasant atmosphere and don't really want to go further. In such an environment, what we need to do is to reflect on whether our relationship has met our expectations, and whether we can afford the hurt and disappointment that will arise.
Finally, I would like to point out that love is an affection that both parties have to give. No matter what kind of relationship we encounter, we must be cautious, clear about our expectations, and dare to chase the happiness we desire. However, we also need to understand that respect for others, respect for others, and relationships with others are very important. Let us work together to cherish friendship and love in the long journey of life, and protect it with sincerity!