On the stage of life, we often face various gains, losses and pursuits.
Sometimes, we go out of our way to get what we want; Sometimes, we find that no matter how hard we try, there are things that we just don't get.
This reminds me of the saying: "Everything is fate, it's yours, you don't have to fight, it's not yours, you can't ask for it." ”
Although this sentence conveys deep helplessness, it also contains acceptance and relief of fate. It also reminds us that in the ups and downs of life, there are some things that cannot be changed no matter what we do. No matter how hard you struggle, you can't force it, and it's irreversible.
We can't force it, but that doesn't mean we have to be passive and resigned to fate. On the contrary, we should face life with a more peaceful mind through self-motivation.
When we have a balanced mind, we will understand that since some things are predestined, then we can choose to give up and strive for things, and pursue happiness and success that truly belong to us more calmly.
It's yours and doesn't need to be fought for. This is not to say that we don't need to work hard, but it does mean that we should maintain a natural attitude towards what we have gained while striving for our goals.
Never overdo something, otherwise, you will only make yourself tired, anxious, restless, and miserable.
When we face it with peace of mind and focus on our own growth and progress, those things that are meant to be ours will come inadvertently.
For those things that do not belong to us, no matter how hard we try, it is in vain.
Because there are many things in life that we can't control.
So, whether it's feelings, or wealth, or fame and fortune. When we cling too much to these things that we can't get, it's easy to lose ourselves and lose our inner peace.
So, we have to learn to let go and learn to accept the imperfections of life.
Everything is fate" also reminds us to cherish what we have in front of us and not to think about things that don't belong to us all day long.
In the long river of life, many times, we ignore the beauty of the present in order to pursue the happiness of the future.
As someone said, true happiness is not far away, it is all around us, and we need to feel and discover it with our hearts.
When we learn to be grateful and content, we can face whatever fate throws us with a more calm attitude.
Everything is fate" is not a negative fatalism, but a deep understanding and perception of life. It reminds us to stay sober and rational on the way to pursue our dreams, not to be overly obsessed with the results, but to enjoy the growth and harvest in the process.
We need to believe that everyone has their own destiny and path. In good times and bad, they are a part of our lives. We must accept the arrangement of fate with a positive attitude and use our own efforts and wisdom to create a better future.
Because only by accepting our destiny can we truly take control of our lives, live our truest selves, and live the life we want most.
The auspicious dragon celebrates the New Year.