As the saying goes, it's not that enemies don't get together, but if these two enemies quarrel every day, is it still necessary to be together?
Is it because of some small thing, or because there are some deep-seated problems between you? If it's a small matter, the two of them sit down and communicate to solve it; If it is a matter of principle, a quarrel will not be famous, unless two people can seek common ground while reserving differences and coexist peacefully.
Secondly, you need to consider whether you still have feelings. If you still love her, then you can try to repair the relationship. If you don't have feelings for her anymore, it's better to separate the two of you than to fight every day.
At the same time, you also need to ask her, do you still have feelings for you? Ask her if she'd like to face the argument in front of you with you.
Try to think about it, if you get married and have children in the future, the two of you will still quarrel every day regardless of it, which is not good for the family and not good for the children, right? If you want to build a good future, if you want to give your children a harmonious and happy environment, like a harmonious and happy family in the future, you need to sit down and think about how to face the problems in front of you.
You can find some good psychologists to help you analyze your psychology, find the crux of the problem, try to look at the problem from a different angle, eliminate prejudices, and communicate harmoniously.
There is a line in the movie "Tower of Babel" that all tragedies stem from the failure of communication.
Communication requires not only the ability to speak, but also certain skills and methods.
You can watch more books or programs on emotional intelligence, watch some famous reviews of celebrities, and learn the methods and speaking skills of those celebrities in the show.
The authorities are obsessed with bystanders, you can find a friend in common with two people, call your friend to ask your friend to help, you come up with an example of each quarrel, and let your friend judge you.
Why do you quarrel every day? That's because you have already said that you will start a new tomorrow and no longer quarrel, but if something happens, you will quarrel again, and you will turn over old accounts and you accuse her of complaining about you, so that there will always be endless quarrels and endless awkwardness.
Since the two reconciled after the quarrel, they must learn to turn the page, don't always dwell on the past and "settle the new accounts and old accounts together" every day, and no one can bear it.
Whether it is still necessary to be together is a decision for the two of you. If you still love each other and are willing to put in the effort for the relationship, you will definitely find a way to repair the relationship and return to the old days when there were no quarrels; If you are no longer emotional, or the relationship cannot be improved, then separating may be a better option. No matter what you choose, you must consider and respect the other person's feelings. Remember, there are at least three ways to solve everything.
Life is not a foreigner, pay attention to me, let's taste the fireworks in the world together.