The villagers held a happy event, and a table of people was absent, and the insiders had already dined and did not need to be courteous
The word "happy event" is derived from Tang poems, which originally referred to something worthy of congratulations, especially to the marriage of the newlyweds. In the traditional folk customs of our country, there is a custom of inviting relatives and friends to eat and drink wine to add to the lively atmosphere.
However, in the real society, some people only like to eat and drink but are unwilling to follow the ceremony, which seems impersonal. It is understood that this phenomenon is particularly obvious in a certain place in Hebei.
Gifts are still exchanged, is a way of emotional communication between people, when relatives and friends do happy events, it is necessary to express their hearts, but also a good opportunity to enhance feelings.
Ding's son got married, and the villagers had a wedding wine, but a group of old women never had a banquet. Mr. Dong, an insider, said that these old women often meet at the villagers' homes for dinner, but they never follow the courtesy, and the villagers never care.
Dante is a "particular person", and on the evening of September 30, he invited some friends in advance and arranged a table for these old women. On October 1, these old women came to eat and drink again, which made Ding unhappy, so they did not open a banquet for them.
Netizens had a heated discussion about the incident.
Some netizens expressed dissatisfaction with the behavior of this group of old women, thinking that they should not be disrespectful and want to eat a second time, which seems to be an uninteresting and dishonorable behavior.
Other netizens feel that these people may not even have a sense of shame, and their behavior is speechless. There are also some netizens who support Ding's approach, believing that they cannot be accommodating to such people who lack shame, otherwise it will encourage their bad habits.
In general, netizens have mixed opinions about this matter.
Lao Hu believes that shame is a kind of awareness and reflection of people's own misbehavior, and it is the embodiment of self-knowledge. While most people have a sense of shame, in a complex society, some people may lose that feeling.
For example, a few days ago, a person who was eating a banquet at someone's house, although the host did not blame him, he actually took away a case of liquor that the owner had not opened, which made people very angry.
There is a clear lack of shame in this kind of behavior. The ancients said that people who have no shame will become scoundrels in society, lack basic humanity, and even do things that most people dare not do.
A person who lacks shame is like a devil who has a negative impact on society. For those old women who went to Ding's house for dinner, Lao Hu hoped that they could seriously reflect on their behavior and correct their bad habits, otherwise they would lose their face.
What do you think?