Man's life is a process from entering the WTO to being born.
When we first came to this world, we didn't understand anything, and we wanted to integrate into this world and this society, so we learned about this world, learned all kinds of cultural knowledge, and learned all kinds of rules.
In the process of learning, we begin to change ourselves and make ourselves more in line with the requirements of this world.
The world requires people to be harmonious and united, so we change ourselves, cut off our edges and corners, reduce our aggression, and become kind to others. Even if we are hurt, we begin to learn to be patient. It's no longer like when we were children, when we were attacked, we immediately fought back against others, and when we saw what we wanted, we wanted to grab it immediately.
This is a process of accession to the WTO, and we become more sensitive to the feelings of others, and of course, we can get along better with others.
However, the problem is that this process of accession to the WTO is often accompanied by harm to oneself.
We can no longer fully follow our own hearts, we can no longer fight back when we are hurt, we can no longer vent when we are emotional, and even many times we need to deeply transform ourselves so that we can better meet the needs of the world.
For example, even if we don't like to read, we will force ourselves to read in order to adapt to this society; Maybe we actually hate someone, but because of the other person's power, we will also kneel and lick ......
Moreover, the process of accession to the WTO is often accompanied by self-denial.
Do many of us think that we are bad in a certain aspect and always want to correct some of our problems? In fact, this is also the result of WTO accession.
We are bound by an acquired education and form a standard for judging things, thinking what is good and what is bad. In order to better join the WTO and integrate into this world, we naturally have to implement this standard. If something in us doesn't meet this standard, we deny it and correct it. For example, if we think that introversion is not good, then we will correct our introversion problem and want to become extroverted.
But the problem is that what we think of as our own problems is often due to our own talents, so this kind of correction is very difficult. For example, if we are introverted by nature, is it difficult for you to correct your introversion problem?
If we can't change it, we will deny ourselves, think that we are not good, we will be easily anxious, and even depressed in severe cases. ji
In order to achieve the greatest happiness, we need to jump out of these boxes, we need to be our true selves, we need to accept our so-called bad places, and build a harmonious and unified self, and this is a process of birth.
Only by jumping out of the box and accepting the so-called bad places in our bodies will we recognize ourselves and be ourselves, instead of suppressing our true feelings, and let ourselves live with a mask, so that we can communicate inside and outside, and finally achieve the greatest happiness.
True happiness is the joy of being yourself.
Think about yourself when you were a child, was it the happiest? At that time we had not yet learned to suppress our pain and not learn to pretend to fit in with this society, we were real, so we were happy.
And the most painful time for us is when we work as adults, at this time, for the sake of firewood, rice, oil and salt, we can't express our true selves, we learn to live with a mask, and we have to hold back when we have suffering, so we feel pain.
Life is such a cycle, from the real self, to become less like yourself, to when you are old, you are yourself again.