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Some time ago, there was a ** on the hot search that caused anger on the whole network, and I realized that some people are really not worthy of being parents.
Here's what happened, when a pair of parents gave birth to their first child, they thought it was a male baby, but it was a baby girl who came out.
This result made them very dissatisfied, and even a little resentful of God.
Then they continued to fight for the second child, and after fighting for a long time, they finally got pregnant, thinking that they must be a male treasure.
But as a result, God just didn't like them, and the second child was still a baby girl.
It just so happened that at that time, family planning was investigated more seriously, and their family was found to have an extra child.
Therefore, between the elder sister and the younger sister, they chose to keep the elder sister and give the younger sister to the rich man to raise.
Years later, when they learned that their sister's adoptive parents had left, leaving her a large fortune to inherit, they began to plan again.
I've never visited my sister, I haven't sent any messages to my sister and called once, and I greet and care about my sister's life from time to time.
That day, they decided to let their sister stop resenting them, and her mother asked her sister to send her a plate of dried fish that she had "worked so hard" to give her, wanting her to feel the warmth of her biological mother.
Then, my sister waited downstairs in my sister's community with this bag of dried fish for a day, and I didn't see my sister come back in the evening, so she had to give the dried fish to the uncle at the gate of the community.
So she wants to say that in her parents' time, it was not her parents who deliberately abandoned her sister, but forced it out of necessity. I don't expect my sister to recognize them, but I just want my sister to stop resenting her biological parents.
Seeing this, my first reaction was to suffocate, and I couldn't imagine how they still had the face to come back to my sister.
At the beginning, you were going to abandon your sister, but now that your sister has the ability, and she pretends to love you, it's speechless to think about.
In this regard, many netizens ridiculed:
People always say that there is no parent in the world who does not love their children.
But in real life, there are always some parents who don't really love their children, but use their children as tools for profit.
If you say that you abandoned your sister because of special reasons when you were a child, then why haven't you come to visit and greet your sister once for so many years?
It can only be said thatThe greatest sorrow for parents and children is not the breakdown of their relationship, but the fact that parents only use their children as tools for profit.
As the Japanese writer Kotaro Isaka said:
I think so. 
In fact, parents who oppress their children as parents abound, demanding money, controlling their thoughts, and even only knowing how to give birth but not raising them, and treating their children as personal belongings.
The above incident reminds me of another incident that happened in Hunan.
In 2007, Ms. Wang gave birth to a baby girl in the hospital.
Before this, Ms. Wang had already given birth to two baby girls, and thought that the third child was a boy.
Presumably everyone knows that in the past, the idea of rural people passing on their ancestry was deep-rooted, and if anyone had no sons, only daughters, they would be pointed at.
Therefore, after Ms. Wang gave birth to two baby girls, she was scolded by her mother-in-law and husband before pinning her hopes on the third child.
As a result, when the third baby was born, it was found that it was still a girl, which made Ms. Wang's mother-in-law and husband very disappointed and angry.
Faced with such a result, Ms. Wang's husband decided to send the child away because he could not afford to raise so many daughters.
Then, the husband contacted Miss Yang, the middleman who had been communicated before, and hoped that she would find someone to live with the child.
Miss Yang is also very reliable, and directly found a rich couple surnamed Li for the child.
Because of physical reasons, the couple surnamed Li have not been able to raise a child after many years of marriage, so they treated the child as their own daughter and named her Tong Tong.
Before the age of 13, Tong Tong has always grown up in the love of the husband and wife surnamed Li, and has not suffered a little hardship and grievance, and has lived a very happy life.
But unfortunate luck struck, Tong Tong's adoptive mother died suddenly due to the aggravation of her illness.
The sudden death of the adoptive mother made the adoptive father very sad and sad, and it didn't take long for the adoptive father to go with the adoptive mother, and then Tong Tong was taken home by his aunt to raise.
After the death of his adoptive father, he left Tong Tong with two properties, at least 5 million at today's market price.
After Tong Tong's biological parents found out about this, they ran to his aunt and knelt down for him, crying and begging his aunt to return Tong Tong to them.
For more than ten years, there has been no greeting to Tong Tong, and as soon as the adoptive parents of the forefoot Tongtong left, the biological parents of the hind foot came to the door.
Needless to say, their purpose is directly on the face.
In the end, my aunt refused to let go, and we don't know if Ms. Wang can get back the custody of Tong Tong.
But in any case, the difficult family situation and not the male treasure are not an excuse to abandon the child, the child is the most innocent.
We have to admit that in this world, except for most parents-It turns out that there are really parents who don't love their children.
Under the guise of "good for their children", they are shirking their personal responsibilities, satisfying their personal desires, and doing things that hurt their children
In April 2019, "What is Home" was released in Chinese mainland, and the film still maintains 9 on Douban1 point of evaluation.
In this movie, it tells the story of a young boy who sued his biological parents in court, and touched the world:
Why?
Because he was born in a poor area since he was a child, his life was very hard, and there were many brothers and sisters at home, and his parents simply could not afford to raise so many children.
So, in order to solve the problem of food and clothing, his parents forced him to work for the owner of the grocery store downstairs from the landlord.
However, he didn't want to work for the grocery store owner, but wanted to study and change his fate.
So in this way, if he doesn't work for the grocery store owner, the family will be kicked out by the landlord and will lose a place to stay.
So, of course, his father was not happy.
However, then, in order to solve the current pressure of life, his parents really married their teenage sister to the grocery store owner.
He couldn't believe that his parents did not hesitate to marry their own daughter to a grocery store owner in order to solve the difficulties of life.
This incident made him feel extremely angry and dissatisfied, and he chose to run away from home in a fit of anger.
Later, when he returned home, he learned that his sister had died in childbirth due to her young age, and in order to avenge her sister, he had to kill the grocery store owner.
As a result, he was sentenced to five years in prison.
Before being incarcerated, he decided to take his parents to court on the following grounds:
I want to sue parents, I want to tell people who can't afford to raise their children not to have any more children. I only remember, violence, insults, beatings, chains, pipes, belts....”
Still, his mother still thinks:
Yes, my parents gave birth to me, but every day in the world I suffer from pain, and my life is dark.
Life is a pile of shit that is no more valuable than my shoes.
For those parents who only see profits, they are completely unaware of their own problems, but they are the victims.
Children are like "clutter" to these parents, and redundant and garbage are synonymous with them. If they are useful, can work, and can get some food, maybe they will have a little more.
So, if you don't love, don't hurt him; If you can't afford to raise him, don't give birth to him and let him suffer a lot of life.
I very much agree with what the writer Wan Qing said:
Having a child was her choice, so she just took the consequences of her choice, and there was nothing to sing about.
Parents are parents, children are children, having children is just a parent's choice, and there is nothing wrong with children.
It is true that the grace of parenting is greater than the sky, but the child has not been raised since birth, until the child grows up, and then he cares about the child's love with blood relations, which is terrible to think about.
If it is really for the sake of the child, when you find that the child is happy, don't bother, so as to make up for the child.
If you happen to be a parent, then there is one thing you should understand at this time:
Children are never a prop for you to exchange money for in the name of love.
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