The most untrustworthy thing in this world is actually the human heart.
To put it mildly, it is often our relatives who hurt us the most.
But there is often such a kind of relative in life, who is selfish and does not know how to be grateful, so even if the relationship is close, it must not be a deep friendship.
Some people will always carry out moral kidnapping under the banner of relatives, but they can't see that others are better than themselves.
helped him, he only felt taken for granted and unappreciated; If you don't help him, you are unkind.
If you are unwilling, they will also morally kidnap you and sneer at you; In his eyes, family affection is just a tool, and the so-called kinship is just a channel that can make him more profitable.
In fact, they are hypocritical in their hearts, just like hypocrites, full of benevolence, righteousness and morality; The reason why they kidnap you morally is essentially because of jealousy, because you live better than him, so his heart is angry.
Therefore, the most terrible thing between relatives or relatives is not their silent harm, but their "moral kidnapping".
In short, when you meet such a relative, it is better to move around less.
Some relatives tend to smile at you on the surface, but they may turn around and look at you with a different face, they are often mercenary, and they don't care about relatives at all.
They would rather see outsiders who have nothing to do with them be rich, than have relatives who are related by blood, and they are even more hostile to those who are close to them.
In this world, it is not terrible to meet the poor, but it is necessary to stay away when you meet the poor; The greatest evil of human nature is that we don't look down on the good of others, and we feel that all our interests are our own.
When you meet these relatives, you can be yourself, you can move around if you can, and if you can't move, you can cut it in two.
Between relatives, if they encounter difficulties, they can help, after all, they are relatives with a certain blood relationship.
However, there is such a kind of relative in life, relying on the affection of relatives to borrow money everywhere, cheeky to borrow money from you one after another, and after borrowing money, the six relatives will not recognize it, find various reasons to cheat, refuse to pay back.
For this kind of relative, either you keep helping or stop in time, or he will see you as an enemy.
This kind of behavior of borrowing money by family affection is deception, which often infringes on our personal interests, and must be kept away.
When you encounter relatives with such character problems, you can't make deep friends.
In short, if you have these kinds of relatives around you, even if the relationship is close, you must try to have as little contact as possible, otherwise you will be the one who suffers.