Recently, two completely different banquets** have attracted widespread attention on the Internet. The first is the ** wedding banquet in Yefu, Fujian, which allegedly cost 2100 million yuan, the whole wedding banquet can be called luxurious and luxurious, and 50 people were set up on the spotBeautyWelcome, antique programs are interlocking, and there are all kinds of delicacies from the mountains and seas. What's even more remarkable is thatBrideHe wears hundreds of large ones on his chestThe bracelet undoubtedly gives people a sense of grandeur. The other** is far from the lavish wedding banquet in Fujian, which is a farmer's head shaving banquet that took place in Bijie, Guizhou. Under the supervision of the supervision team, the deputy mayor led the staff to sprinkle salt into the prepared dishes, which aroused the strong attention of many netizens.
A luxurious wedding banquet and a farmer's head shaving banquet seem to be very different, but they have all become hot spots. These two events were triggeredCCTVand the different voices and perspectives of local residents. CCTVThe incident was criticized by name and key questions were raised, questioning whether the Inspectorate's approach was too rough and lamenting the waste of fine ingredients. Across the country, people have expressed opposition to the deputy mayor's approach to enforcement, while local residents in Guizhou have expressed approval of the group's actions.
1. Too many banquets too often
Banquets in ChinaRuralIt occupies an important place in customs, whether it is a shaving feast, or something else like buying a carWeddingsand other important occasions, banquets are indispensable. Locals believe that a banquet is required for a range of occasions, and is not limited to weddings and funerals. This custom has long been a social rule, and people want to be able to enjoy a lively and festive atmosphere on these occasions. And for some who live inRuralof people, each month's salary is used to attend these banquets, giving people a feeling of a heavier burden.
2. Banquets are indispensable
Some netizens believe that entertaining individuals is not a matter of choice, but a mandatory social norm. In some places, it is mandatory for individuals to attend banquets in accordance with the rules, whether they wish to do so or not. Refusal to attend a banquet can lead to alienation of relatives and may even lead to disputes. Although this custom is not generally welcomed by the villagers, it takes a certain amount of time for the human custom to form. The original intention of the villagers who run the wine is just to increase the festive atmosphere, of course, they hope that every household can participate in it, otherwise it will seem lonely and lonely.
3. The burden of gift money is too heavy
Some people complained that they participated in more than 20 banquets in a month, and according to the average of 200 yuan per banquet, they spent more than 4,000 yuan a month, which was too heavy. Especially in someEconomyIn areas with poor conditions, this burden is even heavier for residents. Their hard-earned savings are usually spent on all kinds of favors.
4. Abuse of banquets cannot be solved
The local ** responded that in addition to normal weddings and funerals, abusive banquets on other occasions can be reported to the local authorities. However, the problem often doesn't stop at the reporting stage. Even if the report is accepted, the local ** faces the difficult problem of how to deal with it. Is it salt or persuasion, and if persuasion doesn't work, what should be done? The dilemma faced by grassroots workers is enormous. At the same time, since the participants of the banquet are all relatives and friends, it is difficult to obtain relevant evidence once the banquet is over. How to collect and process evidence has become a major problem.
Whether it is the luxurious wedding banquet of the Ye family in Fujian or the shaving banquet in Bijie, Guizhou, there is a disturbing phenomenon behind it. In my opinion, it is necessary to strengthen the publicity and education of banquet customs, raise people's consciousness, and consciously resist such phenomena as indiscriminate banquets, large-scale operations, and kidnapping of human feelings and morality. Compared with brutal law enforcement, publicity and education can produce positive effects and reduce negative impacts.
Summary: Two ** raisedSocialThe extensive attention and discussion of the banquet culture showed some problems in the banquet culture. Problems that cannot be solved by too frequent banquets, excessive burden of gift money, and excessive banqueting need to be addressed and solved. This phenomenon can be effectively alleviated by strengthening publicity and raising people's awareness.