It has been said that men and women come from different planets, men are from Mars and women are from Venus.
In the world of feelings, men and women are two completely different creatures.
Girls feel that boys don't understand the amorous style and can't guess it; Boys think girls are vexatious and hypocritical. No one can get used to anyone, and no one can understand anyone.
But every woman longs to meet a man who truly loves her, and how to judge whether this man really loves you is a headache for many women.
In fact, whether a man loves you or not, you don't need to listen to what he says, a man's body is the most honest, whether he really loves you, his physical performance has clearly told you.
1. A man who loves you will take the initiative to communicate with you.
It has been said that communication is the cornerstone of love and the bond of emotion.
It is true that a man who truly loves you will try to understand your life, your thoughts and your feelings, and he will also take the initiative to confide in you about his work life.
I asked if the other party liked her, and she was busy clarifying that it was just a matter of communication with colleagues, and by the way, I asked what arrangements were made for the weekend.
I said that my colleague doesn't talk about work on weekends, he chats with you under the guise of work, and he must be in love with you.
She thinks about it, he seems to be a very cold person, and he usually doesn't communicate with his colleagues in the company, but in front of her, he is a chatter, discussing some irrelevant content, ** some naïve topics.
Yanzi felt a little abnormal at this time, because a person always takes the initiative to chat with you every day, probably not because he is bored or too idle, but because he really likes you.
Some people say that there is no one in this world who doesn't reply to your messages for no reason, and there is no one who takes the initiative to chat with you for no reason.
In fact, the feeling of liking someone is like this, that is, I want to chat with her every day and share what I am busy with every day.
A man really loves you, his action will be beyond your imagination, love this kind of thing, you can't hide it, just like a peacock opening the screen, warm and public.
2. A man who loves you will crave physical contact with you.
Some people say that when you fall in love with someone, you want to touch him and have a sense of touch.
The man who loves you, he will always want to hold your hand, hug you, and kiss you.
In daily life, he will maintain close contact with you, such as walking side by side, walking hand in hand, watching movies together, etc.
I heard a sharing at a lecture, the sharer Linda said that she and her husband have been married for 20 years, and the secret of more and more affection is that her husband takes her hand for a walk every day after dinner, and every time her hand is held tightly by her husband, she feels her husband's strong love for her, which is better than countless roses.
Who's to say it isn't? The man who loves you wants to hold you in the palm of his hand at all times, even if it is only a walk in the garden, it is also a romantic road.
In social situations, they will also subconsciously get close to you, protect you, and have an ambiguous relationship with you. They do this not because they are flowery people, but because they cannot restrain their feelings of love for you.
No matter how introverted the personality is, lovers want physical intimacy, which is a human physiological instinct and cannot be resisted.
Therefore, when the other person always resists having too close physical contact with you, it can only show that he does not love you that much.
3. A man who loves you will look forward to making eye contact with you.
It is said that the eyes are the window of the soul, and a person's eyes can reflect his inner world.
A man who loves you will reveal unconcealable love in his eyes when he looks at you, there is light in your eyes, and you are in his eyes.
He will cherish every opportunity to communicate with you, whether it is face-to-face interaction or communication through text. When talking to you, he will look you in the eye and look for love in your eyes.
It is said that eyes can speak, and in love, a look at each other represents an affectionate confession.
There is a clip in "Longing for Life", when Huang Lei's wife Sun Li was a guest, no matter where Sun Li was, Huang Lei's eyes chased her figure, and his eyes revealed the sweetness of super high sugar.
The man who loves you is you everywhere he looks, and he doesn't hide it. But when he doesn't love you anymore, the other party will refuse to make eye contact, and don't look at you at all, you should understand that he has already changed his mind and no longer loves you.
A man's mouth may say insincere and unintended words, but his body, his actions, are honest and cannot hide his true heart.
A man who loves you will take the initiative to communicate with you, crave physical contact with you, and expect eye contact with you, and these behaviors are not traits they are born with, but because they are genuinely committed to you and are willing to give everything for you.
If you want to know whether a man loves you or not, you don't have to ask, just look at their body.