Mrs. Li Li is a charming and amorous woman in "Flowers", and the relationship between her and Po is complicated. Judging by her background and character, she is an experienced and well-informed woman. She was the nanny of Betty, her first love in Shanghai, and was a sister to Betty, and later left Shanghai for Hong Kong and returned to Shanghai again. After experiencing the ups and downs of fate, Mrs. Li Li has gone through the vicissitudes of life, seen through the world, and maintained a detached attitude towards anyone and everything, and her charm and wisdom have made her the object of admiration of everyone.
Marriage is a temple of love in the hearts of many people, but for Mrs. Lee Lee, marriage is nothing more than a besieged city. The reason for her divorce was her husband's infidelity, who was unfaithful to her and broke his marriage vows. Mrs. Li Li decided to divorce, showing that she has her own bottom line and principles. Instead of choosing to endure betrayal and infidelity, she resolutely left her marriage to pursue her own happiness. This is somewhat similar to Director Jian Bing in the previous "Sun with Me". Mrs. Lee held on to her self-esteem when dealing with marital issues, and she realized that she deserved to be treated better and in a healthier relationship.
Through the divorce, she freed herself and looked for new opportunities and possibilities. For Mrs. Li Lee, the divorce was a liberating process that allowed her to rediscover her true existence and life. She can use this opportunity to re-examine her needs and expectations and restore her inner peace and self. As we as readers, we all know that divorce, especially for women, is not only in Mrs. Lee's time, but even in modern society, women still have to bear more pressure than men. Men are under much less pressure to remarry after divorce. However, it is always more difficult for women to remarry.
It doesn't depend on her financial situation. Marriage is like a besieged city, as described by Qian Zhongshu's namesake **, it is not easy to overcome. Mrs. Li Li is not burdened by these, she is proud, firmly believes that "I am the mainstay, my sister is the queen", and does not care about the eyes of the world. "Your man bears me, and you should be the one who loses face in the end!"Ah Bao had a relationship with Mrs. Li Li, who was not a wife at that time, but an innocent, flower-like woman. Due to a misunderstanding, Po has been haunted by her youthful image, which has had a profound impact on Po.
The two meet again in adulthood, and the male protagonist has admiration and admiration for Mrs. Li Lee. However, Mrs. Li Li's emotional attitude towards Po is complex and subtle, she seems to have a good impression of him, but she maintains a certain distance and proportion. In ** "Flowers", Mrs. Li Li appeared many times, and her communication with Po became an important clue to the story. Not only does she assist Po with many conflicts, including love and business rivalry, but she also provides him with important information about Betty. In Mr. Bao's life, she played a crucial turning point.
It can be said that those who are discerning will find that Mr. Bao may not be the best choice for Mrs. Li, but compared with his ex-husband, Mr. Bao is undoubtedly better. Mrs. Li's relationship with the male protagonist, even if it can't evolve into a marital relationship, is enough to become a good memory in their respective lives. Therefore, it comes to the point that when you meet the wrong person, even if you are married, you must not allow yourself to be trapped in a besieged city. Sisters, if you no longer love, you should be brave enough to release your repressed souls. Get out of the siege as soon as possible and find someone more worthy of encountering.
In a deeper sense, the appearance of Mrs. Li Li has brought new perspectives and enlightenment to Po's life. Her life experience and wisdom gave Po food for thought and inspiration, giving him a deeper understanding of life. She is a woman full of charm and wisdom, and her appearance in "Flowers" enriches the storyline and has an important impact on Po's life.