When it comes to the actor Zhao Min in "Heaven and Dragon Slayer", people will immediately think of Jia Jingwen, Li Zi and Ye Tong and others, but in fact, in addition to them, there is another person who has played this role, that is, Liu Yupu.
Compared with other actresses, Liu Yupu's life journey is really bleak. She was traumatized by her original family, her marriage was not satisfactory, and she even experienced a very humiliating incident - being killed by her biological father**.
All this is an endless abyss for her. died early at the age of 46, and what is even more heartbreaking is that she was not found until 3 days after her death.
What happened to her? Why did she not receive the love of her parents, and even was abused by her biological father? Why did her husband treat her coldly and commit domestic violence against her? What was the reason why she was only found three days after her death?
In 1963, Liu Yupu was born in an ordinary family in Taiwan Province, with three brothers and sisters, she is the second, with an older brother on top and a younger brother below. As the only girl in the family, Liu Yupu should have been cared for and cared for by her parents, but surprisingly, her parents obviously favored her brother, treated her coldly, and even often beat and scolded her.
Liu Yupu is most afraid of her father, because he not only often abuses her, but even uses his hands and feet. What's even more disgusting is that her father doesn't allow her to close the door when she takes a shower, so that he can do bad things.
In her memoirs, she wrote: "My father was like a devil to me, and he did that kind of thing while he was taking a bath for me, and I didn't know what was going on until I was shocked in a health education class." ”
Many people may question, if the father is so cruel, why didn't the mother stop it? But no one knew that Liu Yupu's mother was a very cowardly person.
When she saw her husband doing something excessive to her daughter, she did not take action to stop it, but advised her daughter to learn to be patient.
Liu Yupu longs to escape from the family because of his father's tyranny and his mother's weakness. It wasn't until she was 21 years old that she finally got her chance. She grew up to be handsome, so she successfully joined Hong Kong's Shaw Brothers Film Company and became an actress.
Although Liu Yupu is beautiful, it is not easy to become famous in the era of beautiful women at that time. Therefore, the company decided to position her as a "beating woman".
After her debut, she has participated in many works such as "Jinyi Wei", "New Flying Fox Biography", "Three Breaks into Shaolin", "Lonely Sword and Enmity" and many other works.
However, her really popular work was the TV series "Heaven and Dragon Slayer" filmed in 1984. In the play, she plays Zhao Min who is not only beautiful, but also witty and clever and brave to express emotions.
It is precisely because of this role that Liu Yupu became famous overnight and was known as "the most beautiful Zhao Min".
Liu Yupu has received a lot of drama after becoming popular, and if she continues to stay in the entertainment industry to develop, she will definitely become a high-profile star, and even become a representative of the entertainment industry.
It is a pity that when she was popular, she chose to temporarily withdraw from the showbiz for love.
Because of the influence of his father's misbehavior, Liu Yupu left an indelible shadow in his heart.
Whenever she had free time, she would go to church to pour out her pain. It was here that she met the pastor Zhang Jianzhong, who later became her husband.
When Liu Yupu confided in Zhang Jianzhong, Zhang Jianzhong gave her very warm guidance and care, which deeply touched Liu Yupu, who had lacked care since childhood.
Gradually, the two began a romance. It wasn't until 1985 that Liu Yupu and Zhang Jianzhong entered the palace of marriage, and she finally got rid of the shadow of her original family and had a warm home of her own.
originally thought that after forming her own family, her happiness would continue to increase, but unexpectedly, Liu Yupu found that marriage was just jumping from one abyss to another for her.
Liu Yupu gave birth to two daughters after marriage, and in order to take care of the family, she gradually withdrew from the entertainment industry. Although she did a lot for it, she was not approved by her husband.
The reason is that her husband is also patriarchal and dissatisfied with Liu Yupu giving birth to a daughter, and often quarrels with her and even commits domestic violence.
Liu Yupu was eager to end the marriage, but was opposed by her parents, who thought it would be too humiliating to do so. The long-term torture caused Liu Yupu to fall into severe depression and had to rely on drugs for **.
Even when she was seriously ill, no one wanted to care about her, and her parents and husband thought she was too sensitive. Especially when Liu Yupu went to the hospital for treatment, her husband was resolutely opposed, and even said sarcastically: "What do you do when you are in a bad mood?" You can't just go to church and pray! ”
Her husband didn't understand her, and so did her parents. Once Liu Yupu came home, but her mother thought she was pretending to be sick, but when Liu Yupu explained that she was really sick, her mother said coldly: "Don't scare me with death!" ”
Liu Yupu, who was hit by a double blow, finally chose to self-destruct. She bought 100 sleeping pills, swallowed them in one gulp, and went to the beach.
When she walked towards the sea, she suddenly remembered her daughter strongly, so she dialed her daughter's **. The anxious eldest daughter asked, "Mom, are you a**?" Liu Yupu replied: "Mom is at the beach, you have to take good care of your sister, Mom really loves you very much." ”
Subsequently, Liu Yupu lost consciousness and collapsed in the sea.
Luckily, two patrol officers passed by and rescued her in time. Chillingly, neither her parents nor her husband came to visit her.
Liu Yupu has always had a thought in her heart, even if she wants to insist on divorce, she can't fight for custody of her children because she suffers from severe depression. It was this that her husband used to blackmail her into leaving the house or she would not be allowed to see her children.
For the sake of the child, Liu Yupu agreed to her husband's proposal. In 2007, they officially divorced, and their daughter was raised by their husbands.
After Liu Yupu's divorce, not only did he not get anyone's comfort, but he also had to endure ** pressure and parental blame in the case of severe depression. What is even more chilling is that because the property was divided, she has almost nothing.
Home is said to be an eternal safe haven, but when Liu Yupu returned home, her father did not hesitate to move her hand, and her mother did not say anything to stop her.
Desperate, she took a large amount of sleeping pills again, but her parents watched until the last friend who suddenly visited took her to the hospital.
However, when a friend called ** to tell Liu Yupu's parents that Liu Yupu had been successfully rescued, they replied: "No one will go to the hospital, just let him stay there." ”
Liu Yupu only realized the true meaning of despair at this moment.
Liu Yupu didn't really have suicidal thoughts, she wrote a book called "Open the Heart Fly" after her illness. The book expresses this thought: "There are still many beautiful things in life, and there are many moving corners, so we need to live and experience and share all of them."
Open your heart and let your soul fly freely! You will be amazed to find that life is a flower that is blooming, smiling and greeting you. ”
No matter how strong she is, she can't resist her family's ridicule and indifference to her, and she can only live helplessly, alone.
Liu Yupu died at home on May 14, 2009, but was not found until three days later, and it was discovered that her death was not her parents, but her church members.
According to later learning, Liu Yupu died of a heart attack at the time at the age of 46. She also had ** medication for depression in front of her bed.
Many friends and fans were saddened by Liu Yupu's death. The image of Zhao Min she played in "Heaven and Dragon Slayer" is shrewd and decisive, daring to love and hate, but she herself is indecisive and blindly tolerated, suffering from her father's abuse and her husband's domestic violence, and the only way to resist is suicide.
After countless suicides, Liu Yupu has felt hopeless, for her, home is never a safe haven, but a nightmare existence. She once said: "I have been committing suicide, my parents who gave birth to me don't love me, and my husband who has loved me for 20 years is so indifferent to me, I really can't believe that there are still people in this world who love me." ”
It has been 15 years since she left this world, and Liu Yupu's name is now little known, but what happened to her has made countless people sigh.
If she had received the love of her parents and had a happy marriage, perhaps she would not have died at a young age. However, life cannot be full of assumptions, and her fate was predestined as early as her birth.