As a product of the new era, mobile phones have brought a lot of convenience to people's lives, but also ruined many people. Now when people are asked when they are most anxious, I guess most people's answer is when their phone is running low. The last thing most people do before going to bed is to look at their phones, and the first thing they do when they wake up is also to look at their phones. At present, only a very small number of self-disciplined people use their mobile phones as tools to manage their mobile phones well, and most people are controlled by mobile phones. Adults can't use mobile phones well, let alone children.
The harm that mobile phones bring to children
1.It is harmful to children's eyesight and brain, and the brain of children who are obsessed with mobile phones will atrophy.
2.Children who have been obsessed with mobile phones for a long time have a short temper personality, which affects their learning and life.
Too many children are now obsessed with their phones, not going to school, and messing with their parents.
3.Life-threatening.
Some time ago, a boy in the second year of junior high school around us had a conflict with his mother because of his long-term mobile phone play, and he committed suicide by jumping into the river in a fit of anger, ending his precious life. Yesterday, I saw a child in our city who died suddenly while playing with his mobile phone. Such events are being staged all the time.
The reason why children like to play with their mobile phones and can't put them down.
1.Parents use mobile phones as "electronic nannies".
Some parents are usually too busy with work and have no time to spend with their children, and some parents think that their children are troublesome, so as long as their children make trouble, they will stuff their mobile phones into their children. As everyone knows, this makes the child touch the mobile phone, and then the child is addicted to the mobile phone and can't put it down.
2.Children want to have common topics with their peers.
There are many children who mistakenly believe that only by playing the games that their classmates often talk about, short **, traffic stars will not be snubbed by their classmates, and will be "controlled" by mobile phones from then on.
3.I found my self-worth in my phone.
Many children are not recognized, not noticed, and even have a little inferiority complex in real life, if they have a lot of personality on the virtual platform and are adored and followed by others, they will have a sense of accomplishment, so that they will become more and more inseparable from their mobile phones.
How to help kids stay away from their phones.
1.For preschoolers, it is important to increase companionship and "do what they like".
What such a young child needs is more companionship from their parents, and parents should find their children's interests and "play" with them and try together.
2.For primary school students, it is necessary to cultivate more hobbies and hobbies to enhance their self-confidence.
Whether it is ** or a child, the emptier the person, the stronger the dependence on the mobile phone. Only when you have an active and healthy hobby, invest a certain amount of time and have fun and a sense of accomplishment, the need for mobile phones will be greatly reduced.
3.For middle school students, it is necessary to understand and communicate more.
When the child is older, parents should treat the child as equals. Parents should be honest with their children's behavior, feelings, and worries. Children can be taught to improve their self-management skills.
For children to put down their phones, parents must be good role models. The family can set rules, such as not bringing mobile phones into the bedroom, never picking up mobile phones when not needed for work, and so on. Treat children playing with mobile phones must be kind and firm, what to do with mobile phones, how long to use, and how to deal with overtime must have clear regulations. Take good care of your children when they are young, and when they are older, they won't be bothered by it.
Mobile phones are like drugs, once they are infected, it is difficult to quit, so it is best to separate people and machines.
Parents should educate their children with love and wisdom, and do not ruin their children's lives because of their ignorance.
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