I received a private message, and a girl asked,How to chat with a guy you have a crush on without being embarrassed?
To be honest, it's not difficult to talk about chatting, but it's simple, it seems to be quite exquisite.
Especially between the opposite sex, talking about different topics at different stages, if one is not grasped well, it will collapse every minute.
Therefore, when a girl meets a boy she likes, it is really important to learn how to chat well.
But then again,Getting along with the opposite sex is important in sincerity
If it's stressful to talk all day, it seems a bit too much.
Therefore, when girls are chatting with the boy they have a crush on, there is no need to be too nervous, be natural, and learn the "three nos", which is basically enough.
1.Don't talk hard.
When chatting with a guy you have a crush, there is one thing you need to pay special attention to, that is, don't run out of words to say!
It is understandable that when a girl meets the boy she likes, she will definitely want to talk to him more.
However, if you're just chatting for the sake of chatting, it's going to make the conversation awkward.
Therefore, before chatting with a crush boy, the girl must know his preferences in advance, such as his favorite sports, games, etc.
Start with these topics to avoid awkwardness and make the conversation more interesting.
It's worth mentioning that the entry point for the chat is also important.
If you don't have the opportunity to talk to him, the girl can take the initiative to create some opportunities, such as participating in some group activities that he likes.
Remember, no chance can create chance, but be natural.
2.Don't chase it.
When a girl likes a boy, she will become a little bit of a love brain.
At this time, girls will pay attention to the strengths of boys in various ways, and even beautify their shortcomings.
In short, in their eyes, the other party is the best and most perfect.
However, there is one pitfall to avoid, and that is over-touting.
You know, it's a pretty good thing to get along with people and praise each other more when chatting.
However, when this kind of compliment is excessive, it can become very fake, and even annoy the other person.
So, when chatting with a guy you have a crush, you can praise him appropriately, but don't blow it up.
Try to be as objective as possible to praise his merits, the effect will be better.
3.Don't be in a hurry.
Between the opposite sex, from the first encounter to acquaintance, it takes a gradual process.
Even if it's love at first sight, it takes some time to get to know each other.
Similarly, girls should never be too anxious when chatting with a guy they have a crush.
Step by step, each stage has its own topics and methods, and girls need to adjust it according to the actual situation.
For example, when you first get acquainted, you can start with some relatively shallow topics, hobbies, or eating, drinking, and having fun.
Wait until the two are familiar with each other, and then slowly go deeper and talk about each other's lives, including love history.
Remember, if you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry, you can chat with sincerity, in fact, it is relatively simple for women to chase men.
In fact, when men and women get along, some things don't have to be too complicated, just be natural.
Some routines can be properly referenced, but don't rely too much on them.
After all, fate is indeed quite wonderful, and some things can't be forced.
Keep a normal heart, and maybe the ending will be better.
Finally, I want to say that,Chatting with the opposite sex, whether it is difficult to say is nothing more than that
Listen attentively and speak well ......