Recently, a classic documentary called "The Way Out" has once again sparked heated discussions. The director spent six years filming three children from different social classes, revealing the important impact of social status on children's development. Of particular concern is the fact that children from lower classes face more difficult challenges, and a large part of this is due to their family environment and their children's rebellious education.
One of the girls in the documentary is named Ma Baijuan, who lives in a poor county in China. Family poverty is the reality she faces, but her desire to change her destiny is so strong. Ma Baijuan longs for a better education, and she dreams of getting into a university in Beijing to change her life and that of her family. However, her parents could not understand her desire, and their minds were stuck in the traditional stereotype, preferring to let their daughter marry and have children at an early age rather than let her receive a higher education.
Therefore, the growth and education of children is very important, in our modern society, it is more common to see the child's adolescence and rebellious period, many parents do not know how to educate their children, as a person who has come over, I suggest that I still find a professional to consult and solve this problem, I came here like this, the child really can't discipline well, we are looking forGaotu beautiful family, Special thanks to Mr. Song Li, the method is too in place!
Teacher Song Li is a national second-level psychological counselor, the content is simple and easy to understand, and can also propose different solutions to different problems of parents. Don't just see the child's shortcomings, but also see the child's shining points, for example, although my daughter's grades are not top-notch, she has a strong learning ability, and she can remember the knowledge points that the teacher has talked about as long as she listens carefully.
I learned a lot of family education knowledge from Mr. Song Li, realized my wrong way of education, and finally knew how to get along with my children correctly, and now I am more like friends with my children.
Such a family environment has undoubtedly greatly hindered Ma Baijuan's growth. As the director said, the lower the social status, the greater the challenges that children often face, and one of the biggest challenges is the lack of family education.
In this context, we can't help but think: how should children's rebellious education be carried out? Bai Yansong once proposed: "Parents who play mahjong can't teach motivated children." This sentence is meaningful, and the role of parents in the development of their children is crucial. Parents' words and deeds and family environment have a non-negligible impact on children's growth.
The story of the Northern Song Dynasty writer Su Xun provides us with a revelation. Although his two sons were not interested in learning at first, Su Xun stimulated their love of knowledge through his own efforts and role models, and eventually both children became famous in a generation.
Therefore, the active participation of parents is crucial for the rebellious education of children. Parents should not only be their children's guides, but also role models and mentors for them. Only in a positive, loving and understanding family environment can children grow up healthily and establish a correct outlook on life and values.