In the busy city, the lights are brilliant and the traffic is busy. Everyone is running for life, and in this hustle and bustle, there is a voice quietly asking: Can't you find a partner if you don't take the initiative on a blind date? Or has fate not arrived?
Xiaoya is a typical urban white-collar worker, she is sweet-looking, hard-working, and independent. But emotionally, she has always been a passive person. She always believes that fate will naturally bring the right person. However, as she grew older and her friends entered the palace of marriage one by one, she began to feel anxious.
Her parents also began to arrange blind dates for her. At first, Xiaoya was resistant, she felt that this way was too direct and lacked romance. But as time passed, she gradually realized that perhaps blind dates were also a way to find fate.
On the first blind date, Xiaoya was so nervous that her palms were sweaty. The other party was a suave man named Jay. They chatted happily, from hobbies to work and life, as if there were endless topics to talk about. But after the blind date, Jie did not take the initiative to contact Xiaoya, and Xiaoya did not take the initiative to find him. She told herself that this was fate and that there was no need to force it.
However, as time passed, Xiaoya began to doubt her persistence. She began to wonder if she was too passive, whether she should take the initiative and strive for her own happiness. She began to reflect on her blind date experience, whether she missed any important signals.
By chance, Xiaoya learned that Jie actually had a good impression of her, but because of her lack of initiative, he also began to hesitate, not sure if she was interested in him. Xiaoya had mixed feelings in her heart, and she began to realize that maybe fate was in her hands, but she didn't cherish it.
She began to take the initiative to change her attitude. She no longer waited for fate to come, but took the initiative to find it. She began to take the initiative to contact Jay and ask him out for dinner and movies. She found that taking the initiative was not so scary, but rather made her feel more fulfilled and confident.
Jie was pleasantly surprised by Xiaoya's initiative, and their relationship quickly warmed up. They have had many good times together and have been through a lot of difficulties together. They support each other, understand each other, and each other's hearts are slowly getting closer.
Finally one day, Jie proposed to Xiaoya. He told her that he had been waiting for this moment to be ready for her to accept his love. Xiaoya was moved to tears, she knew that she had finally found her own fate.
Xiaoya's story tells us that fate may come when you least expect it, but it also needs us to cherish and grasp it. In the process of blind date, taking the initiative does not mean losing dignity and independence, but rather a manifestation of courage and self-confidence. Only when we take the initiative to pursue and strive for it can we truly find our own happiness.
In this fast-paced society, we may have become accustomed to passively waiting for fate to come. But perhaps, like Xiaoya, we should be brave enough to take the initiative to find and strive for our own happiness. After all, fate is not something to be waited for, but something to be earned. So, don't ask again if you can't find a partner if you don't take the initiative on a blind date? Instead, you should ask, are you ready to take the initiative to find your fate? When you're ready to take that step, you'll find that happiness is actually all around you.