This is a country saying,"The door is always open, and the door is always closed"In fact, it contains strong local feelings, revealing the open-mindedness and simplicity and integrity of the villagers. Let's get to the bottom of what we're saying.
If you want to talk about the portal, why is it really confusing to hear it - if you turn the switch on and off, why is it like playing Tai Chi, one yin and one yang? But this matter, the ancestors pondered for hundreds of years, and there was no sure believe.
What is the door? What is a household? What we usually say refers to our family. But you have to know that door-to-door is not the same thing, and when you touch the word "portal", the meaning is different.
In the past, our ancestors paid special attention to the house of the family, and paid attention to the door! Most people only have one main entrance, which is what everyone often calls the gate.
Those with better family backgrounds, such as triple courtyards and quadrangle courtyards, not only have a front door at the head of the house, but also have a door at the back. When you watch the TV show, those ancient girls' houses are mostly scenes of sneaking out of the side door - this shows that the conditional family has a front door and a side door.
Our ancestors are still particular about the door, and the gate is often called "Yimen" or "side door". "Yimen" refers to the main door of the home, while "side door" refers to the side door or side door.
Generally speaking, when there are guests in the house, they must be invited through the main entrance, so that they can not only appear attentive to the guests, but also hospitable. If there is anything at home, such as buying and selling, it will be done from the back door, so that outsiders don't know.
Most people will confuse the door with the household, the threshold of our old rural house is raised high, there are door frames on both sides to support, and a horizontal log behind the door, which is similar to a lock.
Some people also say that outside the gate of the farmhouse courtyard, it is called the door; The residence is at the door of the big house, which is called Hu'er.
In the past, people felt that the location of the house and the surrounding environment could affect the luck of the family. So before building a house, you have to ask someone who understands feng shui to show the homestead.
When building a house, the location and style of the gate should be particular. The feng shui master will give you instructions on how to get it, otherwise the fortune of the family may be affected.
At that time, people believed that "one household opens two doors, and both people and money are empty". This is not to say that there cannot be a front and rear door in the home, but that there cannot be two main entrances.
It may be because the older generation does not have a high level of education, and they are busy in the fields every day. Therefore, there is a superstitious saying that you do not enter the door with an empty burden.
This idea is certainly untenable. You have to work hard to live a good life, and you can't wait for pie to fall from the sky.
For happy events at home, guests have to enter and exit from the main entrance, bringing good luck and longevity to the home. If there's something tricky at home, handle it from the back door.
As for the saying "the door is always open, the door is always closed", it comes from Lao Tzu's "Tao Te Ching" "The door is always open, and the door is always closed".
I have a friend, a native of the countryside, who remembers that when I was a child, there were two doors in my house, one in the courtyard called the aisle door, and the other in the hall.
At that time, the doors were made of wood, painted with paint, and they would look old after a long time, but in the hearts of farmers, the door was always a bridge to connect feelings.
The door is always open"This means that everyone gets up early in the morning and leaves the door open. When the neighbors have free time, they come over to sit and chat, and enhance their feelings for each other.
When it comes to the festival or something, relatives and friends come and go, and as soon as the door opens, it is lively and lively, making people feel the warmth and welcome of home. When others feel your enthusiasm, they will naturally want to come often.
As for"Households are normally closed"What this means is that the household is like a screen, and when it is closed, it is to protect the privacy and security of the family.
For example, the outer door of the countryside, that is, the household, is sometimes as simple as a few branches, but when it is closed, the people in the house can feel at ease and warm.
At that time, the security was not as good as it is now, especially in the villages on the side of the mountains, and there may still be wild beasts at night, so the house was closed for the safety of the family.
I remember the summer when I was a kid and I was particularly impressed. At that time, the conditions of every household were average, and it was good to have an electric fan, and in order to save electricity, everyone loved to sit at the door of their homes to enjoy the coolness.
They were not in the house to eat, so they sat at the door with bowls, and if anyone passing by was thirsty and wanted to drink, the people of the village would be enthusiastic about it.
At night, the mosquitoes at that time were not rampant now, the adults carried small stools to sit in the yard and chat, and the children looked at the sky full of stars, the moon was bright, and the stars were shining.
In modern society, life is gradually modernizing, home appliances have become the norm, and the way of life in the past has gradually become a memory.
Nowadays, we are paying more and more attention to the door of the house. Although most people now go to the city to buy a house, unlike the countryside where they have to build their own houses, the requirements for the portal are still quite particular.
When buying a house, look at whether the door is rushing to the elevator or stairs, which is unlucky in feng shui, and it is said that it will affect the luck of the residents. For example, the door of the house is facing the bedroom, which is not good. Adults may have quarrels when they live, and children may cry endlessly.
Obviously, everyone pays a lot of attention to the portal.
People are exploring that the opening and closing of the door is not only related to the privacy and peace of the home, but also to the stability and order of society.
Some people say that in the 21st century, the door of the country is open to the world, and the door of the countryside does not need to be so closed. Now that there are more migrant workers in the cities, the doors of the rural areas must be opened and households can be closed tightly, so that the development of urban and rural areas can be harmonious.
Of course, there are also objections, arguing that the doors of rural areas should be open to specific people, and households should also be open, so as to bring in resources, share information, and promote the integration of urban and rural areas.
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