Generalization: He's not good for me about this, he's not good for me at all
A classmate said: "After I cook the dishes, my husband's comments need to be strengthened." Then this classmate felt that my husband didn't approve of me at all.
Let's take a look, "After I cook, my husband's comments ** need to be strengthened" and "My husband doesn't approve of me at all".
First of all, is the label "disapproved" appropriate? Is my husband's starting point not to recognize? Is there a possibility that my husband is actually joking? We won't discuss these today, let's assume that this is true, and my husband also admits that this is not recognized. That can only show that my husband does not approve of the dishes you cooked this time.
But is it like this every time you cook a dish? Does my husband comment every time? Or do you sometimes review and sometimes you don't? When my husband commented, did he never say a good word? Have you ever said "this time is not bad" a few times?
Okay, let's assume that your husband reviews the dish you cook every time, and he never says a good word about the dish you cook, so what does this mean? This can only show that your husband does not approve of the dishes you cooked. Can it show that your husband doesn't approve of you as a person?
Unless you admit it: you are the person = the food you cook, and the food you cook = all of you. Then the equation can be true. Marriage