If there is a shortcut in education, it must be role model education, every child is born with imitation, some children like to learn from their father to speak, and some children like to learn from their mother's makeup, but because their concept of right and wrong is still relatively weak, so, no matter what adults do, they will imitate in the subconscious.
This also answers why everyone always says, "Parents are the mirror of their children, and children are the shadows of their parents".
Purely by yelling at the child or strict discipline, it is basically in vain, and the child is even more disgusted, I came over like this, until a few months ago, I studied for a period of time in the Gaotu beautiful family, and I learned too much with Mr. Song Li, at first because after the junior high school, the child's learning was originally in the middle of the stream, but after the junior high school added geography and biology, the child was very hard at the beginning, but in the second half of the year, the opportunity was very backward and even he was rotten and did not study!
The family was also very anxious, but they couldn't control their emotions, which caused the smell of gunpowder at home to be particularly strong during that time, basically blowing up at one point, and the child was becoming more and more rebellious. Ask the teacher for help, the teacher let the science guide, recommended the Gaotu beautiful family, the first half of the second year of junior high school, basically we stabilized, the child also realized the value of learning, caught up, and the atmosphere at home was also good, so it is worth learning.
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Let's work together to escort the growth of children! The great literary writer Leo Tolstoy once said, "All education, or 999 out of 1,000 education, is attributed to example, to the uprightness and perfection of the parents themselves." In life, children may sometimes not listen to their parents, but they can gain feelings and experiences from their parents' behavior. When the mother smiles at the child, the child also learns to smile and treat others, and when the father patiently helps strangers to guide the way, the child also learns to be kind to others. Any excellent child is a traceable cause and effect, his cause, in the family, his roots, in the parents, and the best education is that the parents take the lead in living a light, and then become the best example for the child. High Path