Today I will share a true story that I felt from a third-person perspective. From his wife's mouth, he learned that her mother planned to deposit a sum of money in the bank, and lamented that if she was old and too sick to move, she would have to wait for death if she had no money on her body.
It turned out that it was an incident she had witnessed recently that made her feel something. Soon, one of her eldest brothers was a native of the countryside with children and grandchildren, but the eldest brother's son was short-tempered and obsessed with speculative lottery tickets. Although the father and son take care of several fish ponds together, and the daughter-in-law sells chickens in the market, the conditions were originally good, and most of the hard-earned money was spent on bad habits. As a result, the relationship between the two fathers and sons was not friendly.
A year ago, during a field work, the eldest brother who had entered the old age suddenly fell ill and collapsed, and he could no longer go out due to the limited mobility of his lower limbs. The children arranged for the old man to recuperate in a small room, which was filled with a peculiar smell, which was the place where the old man lived his daily activities, and he was getting thinner and thinner under the torture of illness. Not long ago, there was news that the old man suddenly had a stroke, and after being sent to the hospital, his life was saved, and the state of the whole person has fallen to the bottom. The old man's eyes were dull and not very clear, and the doctor bluntly said that he could not recover.
Soon the old man's savings of tens of thousands of yuan were spent, and the children also shouted that they had no money and could no longer continue to pay for medical expenses. But who sucks phlegm for his father when he gets home? There is only one ending! I think everyone knows.
When such a change happens in a family, my heart is really full of emotion. A person who was once so energetic has now become so fragile and helpless, allowing the disease to erode little by little, as a third party who is a bystander, it is still difficult to calm down.
After retirement, you should live a peaceful and peaceful life, let go of all cumbersome baggage and constraints, and live a self-disciplined life to keep your health in good condition. How lucky does a person have to be to overcome all kinds of difficulties and dangers, and to live more than half a hundred peacefully, to survive the sixtieth birthday, and to usher in old age? You can sit quietly in a rocking chair, watch the wild geese, and watch the sunset.