Feng Shundi,years out of marriage,Widowed, although illiterate, he educated famous writers.
Mencius was carefully educated by his loving mother from an early age and possessed noble qualities. In ancient times, it was generally believed that:'A woman's lack of talent is virtue'However, as a traditional woman, although uneducated, Meng's mother produced a philosopher, thinker, politician and educator, known alongside Confucius, the founder of Confucianism'Confucius and Mencius'。"
Mr. Hu Shi was born in 1873 in an ordinary poor family in Anhui Province, and his parents were villagers. However, with his own efforts and talents, he became an outstanding writer, thinker, and philosopher.
His story tells us that a person's background does not determine his future, as long as he has dreams and perseverance, he will definitely be able to realize his own value.
She was born into a patriarchal family, so she failed to live up to her parents' expectations. However, her life was redefined. became the second wife of a man 30 years older than her, that is, Xu Xian, in fact, she was selling her daughter.
This reality is harrowing and reflects the sexism and injustice that still exists in society.
Hu Shi's mother became a widow not long after he was born, when she was only 23 years old, and began to live alone in an empty house.
When she was young, she took on the burden of the family in her early 20s. Her kindness and easy-going are appreciated, but in the face of insults, she does not flinch and always sticks to her principles.
This tenacity and perseverance have earned everyone's respect.
During her years of illiteracy, she experienced many difficulties and setbacks and gradually realized the importance of learning. However, when she lost her husband, Hu Shi's growth and education lacked father's love, and Feng Shundi resolutely took on the responsibilities of a father.
Mr. Hu Shi recalled that when he was a child, whenever he made a mistake, his mother did not beat and scold him, but just looked at him with her stern eyes, and the deterrent power of that kind of eyes can almost be compared with beating and scolding.
Although the mother is strict with her son, she always respects him and gives him enough face. Criticism never happens in front of others, but chooses to go back to the room late at night to educate.
This is the wisdom of a mother, who knows how to guide her children on the right path while respecting them.
Hu Shi cried bitterly late at night, rubbing his hands together and shedding tears, which led to a fungal infection in both eyes. For a mother, who does not care deeply for her child? The mother who got the home remedies woke up Hu Shi early every day and used her tongue to ** his eyes.
In the end, "hard work paid off", and Hu Shi's eye disease was cured.
Although Feng Shundi is a rural woman, she pays great attention to her son's education. At that time, Hu Shi was still very short, and he had to be picked up and taken off every day, and this life lasted for nine years.
She attaches great importance to her son's ideology, culture and etiquette, which is a major feature of her education.
Feng Shundi treats her son's memorization homework very carefully, she not only strictly demands her son in his studies, but also gives more support than ordinary people in tuition fees, hoping that his son can get more attention and guidance and read more good books.
Feng Shundi is well aware of the importance of culture, so she hopes that through her own efforts, her son will avoid being frustrated by not being educated like herself.
When Hu Shi was 13 years old, his mother insisted on sending him to Shanghai to study. Although some people don't understand, and even think that the mother is ruthless, "the child is a piece of flesh on the mother's body", but the mother knows that for the growth of her son, he needs to go to a higher and farther place to receive a better education.
Therefore, she interprets the greatness of maternal love with practical actions, as well as the deep expectation for the growth of children.
Hu Shi stayed abroad for 7 years, and his mother's wish to become a talent finally came true.
Hu Shi, who was studying and studying, didn't know that his mother, who was staying alone in his hometown, was getting worse. In order to ensure that her son could receive timely news, the mother even asked others to continue the correspondence with her son on her behalf if she was not physically fit to write a letter.
Although Feng Shundi died of a serious illness shortly after his son returned to China, Hu Shi still couldn't accept this fact, and he felt extremely sad when he saw his mother close her eyes, and all his efforts seemed to be to no avail. ”
Meng's mother, Hu's mother, there are many such mothers. "One foot and three inches of baby, ten and eight years of work"The mother has worked hard all her life, and she is most concerned about her children.
Let's put down our phones for a while, put our work aside, spend more time with our families, listen to their care, and spend quality time with them.