I really can't imagine it, I have been a son and a daughter all my life, and when I am old, I don't even have a nest for the elderly," said *** in his 70s with tears in his eyes.
** Statement.
I am a retired middle school teacher, my wife works in a company, and I was an accountant before I retired. My husband and I have a son and a daughter.
Son Xiaofeng, who has been honest since he was a child, looks unlikable, but his daughter Lili is smart, well-behaved and cute. I naturally feel more partial to Lili, what is good, always give Lili more, and said to Xiaofeng, you are a boy, and an older brother, let my sister more. Xiao Feng listened to my words and let Lili do everything.
But I didn't expect that after going to school, looking at Xiaofeng, who was not smart, had good grades, was down-to-earth, and worked hard, while the smart Lili was not focused on studying, and her grades were always unsatisfactory.
My wife said to me, Lili, I was spoiled by you, I was impetuous, I didn't study well, I only knew how to eat, drink and dress up, although Xiaofeng looked honest, but this child was patient, able to sit still, calm, and there would be something to do in the future.
Xiaofeng studied all the way, a key class in a key middle school, and was admitted to 985 University, while Lili, after graduating from junior high school, was admitted to a vocational school.
After graduating from college, Xiaofeng started a business with a few good classmates and opened a company, but Xiaofeng was a strong and resilient child, and the company got better and better.
Lili entered a supermarket as a cashier and married a supermarket security guard, her son-in-law's family conditions were not good, and she couldn't afford to buy a wedding house, so the young couple lived with her in-laws.
Xiaofeng's business is getting better and better, buying a car, buying a house, and marrying Jiaojiao, a classmate from college.
Looking at my pampered daughter Lili living like this, I was reluctant, always thinking about giving her some help, my little grandson Beibei went to kindergarten, I paid for his tuition, after my wife and I retired, the pension of the two people added up to more than 10,000, we are usually very thrifty, Lili's family of three came over, all empty-handed. I knew she was in poor condition, so I didn't want her to buy it.
And Xiaofeng's family of three comes, they will always bring a large bag and a small bag, Jiaojiao is very knowledgeable, filial piety to me, and often buys me clothes, Jiaojiao sends a lot, and I can't finish eating, so I let Lili take it back.
Gradually, I noticed that Jiaojiao didn't come as often as before, but I didn't think too much about it. Lili always complained to me, saying that she lived with her in-laws, the house was small, and there were many inconveniences, Bei Bei grew up day by day, and she didn't even have a study. My wife and I have a very big house, I discussed with my wife, otherwise give the house to Lili and let them come to live, we are also old, living together, one is also lively, and the other is convenient to take care of us.
My wife said, this is not very good, we not only have a daughter of Lili, but also Xiaofeng, the house is not suitable for Lili, I said, Xiaofeng has a house and a car, and he doesn't need our help, and he is an older brother, so his sister should too. My wife said, I'm just afraid that Jiaojiao will be unhappy, haven't you noticed? You always ask Lili to take things back, and Jiaojiao is less here now.
When I thought about it, too, my wife was careful. Then I have to think of a way, I can give the house to Lili, and not let Jiaojiao get angry, in the end, I am also smart, I discussed with Lili, nominally, I sold the house to Lili for 1.5 million, we signed a contract, but in fact, I didn't charge Lili a penny, in this way, Lili's family of three lived over, I told Xiaofeng, I sold the house to Lili.
Jiaojiao said, Dad, don't lie to us, where did Lili get so much money to buy a house? You're giving the house to Lili. I said, no, Lili's in-laws gave money, and she saved money, borrowed money, and bought it together. Jiaojiao didn't say anything anymore. It's just that after Lili came over, Jiaojiao came even less, and only came during the New Year's holidays.
In the past, I always thought that Lili would live here, and we could live well, but what I didn't expect was that Lili lived here, and after a long time, there were many contradictions. Lili doesn't do much work, she used to be over there, and her in-laws did it.
Now that we're here, we have a lot of things to do, we have to buy vegetables and cook, and we have to pick up and drop off our children, we are also older, our health is not too good, and we feel tired when we do more, and now I understand Lili and always say that she is not used to being with her in-laws, maybe her in-laws also do everything, and they are not happy, so I said a few words.
My wife and I are embarrassed to call our son-in-law, this little couple gets off work every day, plays with mobile phones, brushes **, brushes Tik Tok, chats with people, children don't care, housework is not done, and the usual expenses are still out of us, and finally I can't help it, my wife said to Lili, you are also a mother, it's time to learn to do things. Lili was not happy and quarreled with her wife. In this way, the family began to be unquiet, three days of noisy, five days of trouble, one day, Lili suddenly said impatiently, you can't get used to it, don't live in my house, go rent a house to live.
I was stunned, and I said, Lili, this is my home, why can't we live. Lili said, you are confused, this house was sold to me for 1.5 million yuan earlier, it is my home, and you are now living in my house!
At this moment, I regret it, Lili is really spoiled by me, so I have no conscience, in my 70s, I don't even have a house, and I have become a person with no fixed residence.