1. Don't have pity on anyone, even the closest ones, because sympathizing with someone will make your subconscious take on his fate.
2. Don't take on the fate of others, first fulfill your own mission, achieve yourself, and then help others after you have the ability. Otherwise, it will only drag yourself down, and it seems to be wronged, but in fact it is ignorant.
3. Sympathy is useless, real help is effective. Compassion only makes people feel sorry for themselves, but real help makes people strong.
4. Compassion is overflowing, often putting oneself in endless predicament.
5. Think rationally when helping others, set the boundaries and scope of help, and choose the right way.
6. Stay away from people and negative environments that are harmful to you, because they will cultivate your resentment and evil spirit, which is the number one killer of a good life.
7. Ideological awakening is much more important than concrete action. Even when you're busy with the mundane, set aside time to think about life's most important strategic issues.
8. Before thinking about how to do a good job, think about whether it is necessary to do it, and have a clear understanding of the purpose of the thing.
9. Instead of thinking about what big things you want to do that shake the world, you should think about what kind of living atmosphere you want to have and work hard for it. The former is often at the mercy of fate, while the latter is determined by their own choices.
10. Be clear about what is important and who is important. Talk about what's important with people who matter, and talk about things that aren't important with people who don't. Don't argue with important people about things that aren't important, and don't talk about important things with people who don't matter. Human nature, deep reality, interpersonal communication, cognition