Because Sister Yaping did not handle the reimbursement of Yaping's father's hospitalization, Yaping and Lijuan's small family was hollowed out, and Lijuan's mother's family was owed tens of thousands of yuan.
Lijuan asked her mother-in-law to sell her hometown house, but her mother-in-law refused to live or die!
Lijuan couldn't bear it, was furious, and didn't choose what to say.
Yaping was enraged and almost strangled Lijuan to death.
This incident released several very dangerous signals:
Clause. 1. Sister Yaping is unreliable.
Clause. Second, the mother-in-law is full of benevolence and morality, but in fact she is extremely selfish.
Clause. Third, Li Yaping is not only emotionally unstable, but also has a faint hatred for Lijuan.
If Lijuan is a strict enough girl, she should pay attention to this domestic violence incident and take immediate action.
First of all, quickly withdraw the money from the mother's shares, and count as much as you can to minimize the loss.
Secondly, if there is one domestic violence, there will be a second time, in order to save your life, decisively end this marriage and do a good job in property division.
In the end, learn from the pain, change the character of sharp teeth and sharp mouth, easy to irritate people, and in the days to come, do big things in a muffled voice, and less fast with your tongue.
However, Lijuan in the play is a representative of "hard-mouthed and soft-hearted".
After returning to her parents' house, it was her mother who saw that she was injured, but Lijuan only said that Yaping had done it to her, and did not mention how powerful Yaping had done it.
Lijuan's mother was also confused, and after listening to Lijuan recount the whole thing, the mother and daughter actually laughed and ......
The most infuriating thing is: Not long after, in order to let his father see his grandson before he died, Yaping used Lijuan as a fertility tool and coaxed her to get pregnant and give birth to a child.
So, why is Lijuan so easy to deceive?
When Lijuan was six months pregnant, she once said this while walking with Yaping: "Actually, I know that you lied to me when you said that you liked me and loved me at that time, you were trying to make your dad happy, right?" ”
This sentence is enough to show that Lijuan knew Yaping's intentions from the beginning.
But she chose to be obedient.
Because, Lijuan's heart is very kind.
She really didn't speak well, she said that her mother-in-law was the most poisonous and bad old woman in the world, but she was about to be strangled to death, and when she saw her mother-in-law fainting, she still asked Yaping to hurry up and see his mother.
She does have low emotional intelligence, and if she wants to eat sauerkraut, she immediately asks her mother-in-law to send it over, but she doesn't eat it, which hurts the old man's heart.
However, in order to make Yaping's father happy, the first thing she does after work every day is to change into tight clothes and walk around in front of her in-laws with her stomach up, so that Yaping's father can hold on to ......
After the conflict between Lijuan and Yaping and her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law hated Lijuan to the core, and the house that Lijuan's family paid for was bought by her family, and she occupied the magpie's nest and did not allow Yaping to take Lijuan back.
Yaping also swayed between his mother and daughter-in-law, and was dissatisfied with Lijuan.
And Lijuan is the only one of the three who really reflects on herself, whether in front of her mother's family or her colleague Sister Cai, she admits that she said the wrong thing that day.
A kind person tends to think of the people around him as kind as himself.
She had always thought that Yaping almost strangled her to death, just because of that sentence that day, and if she hadn't said that sentence, everything wouldn't have happened.
Since it's just a matter of one sentence, it's over and it's over, and the days should still be lived.
In the days when she returned to her parents' house after being abused by domestic violence, Lijuan had actually been waiting for Yaping to pick her up and give her the stairs.
Therefore, when Yaping made a gesture of "bowing his head", Lijuan knew that he had another purpose, and would pretend not to know and enjoy it.
Yaping, on the other hand, is really a calculating person.
In the matter of coaxing Lijuan to get pregnant, his calculating skills were brought to the extreme.
From the day he made up his mind to get Lijuan pregnant, when he ate breakfast, he would deliberately take more eggs to supplement his nutrition.
In addition to work, I will work out and improve my physical quality.
Then, he pinched the first few days of Lijuan's ovulation and went to pick her up from work.
took advantage of Lijuan's love for him, wanted to capture her, and sent her downstairs to the house, never acting rashly.
When Lijuan's feelings and desires were mobilized, Yaping took advantage of Lijuan's "love and romance" characteristics, bombarded with flowers, red wine, big houses, and sweet words in turn, and took down the other party in one fell swoop.
When Lijuan said worriedly, "I may be pregnant." ”
Yaping gave a very underwhelming expression and said, "It's not possible, it's for sure!" ”
His complacency just proves that Yaping didn't feel guilty about coaxing Lijuan to get pregnant.
On the contrary, he saw the conquest, cajoling, exploitation, and manipulation of the Lijuan as something to show off.
Yaping's approach is not only insulting Lijuan, but also disrespectful to the child who was "planned".
And Lijuan's soft-heartedness and love brain not only ruined herself, but also affected her son.
Therefore, I can understand Lijuan's mother's hatred after hearing that Lijuan was deceived into becoming pregnant.
Perhaps, it will be difficult for a girl like Lijuan to grow up without experiencing a heart-wrenching injury......