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"Everything in the world has cause and effect. "
No matter who you meet, no matter what experience comesIt's all set in the wheel of fortune.
A thought is the cause of the heart, and what is felt and received is the effect
Everything in the world is based on this principle.
This is true even between husband and wife.
If it weren't for the fate cultivated in the previous life, how could we share the same bed in this life?
If you want to have a happy marriage, the key lies in yourself.
The cause you sow will bear fruit.
In family relationships, reduce blame and increase tolerance
will let many contradictions gradually dissolve,The family affection is getting deeper.
One blogger shared a personal experience:
A few years ago, the family went to Beijing for a vacation.
Because my wife accidentally booked the wrong hotel room
He constantly blamed his wife for being careless during the trip.
Although I was able to change the room later, it did not affect the entire travel planBut during those few days of travel, my wife was always depressed
And he also feels that the pleasure of traveling is halved.
Mention a deep-rooted idea,A good marriage is not simply 1+1=2,
Rather, two separate individuals each have their own half of their personalities0.5+0.5 to make up a complete 1.
No one is perfectIs there an absolutely perfect partner in the world?
In the trivial daily and complicated life,Anyone can be negligent and make mistakes.
If it is at every time there is a disagreement or conflict
Both sides only know how to blame each other, and lack tolerance and understanding.
Over time, no matter how deep the family affection is, it will turn from strong to weakNo matter how hot the emotion is, it will gradually cool down.
Home is not a battlefield for disputes, but a harbor for the souls of the husband and wife to rest
Tolerance and understanding are the best medicines for long-term harmony in marriage.
Don't cling to each other's faults and don't let goBe more considerate of each other's difficulties and hardships
In this way, those frictions in life can gradually subsideMake ordinary days warm and harmonious.
My husband had just finished a day's work and stepped into the houseThen he saw his wife busy feeding the child dinner
He hurriedly stepped forward and asked"Honey, have you eaten it? ”
The wife smiled and shook her head, saying that the child was very noisy today, and she had no time to eat.
The husband stroked his wife's hair with pity
Said to herThoughtful words, then turned around and quickly prepared dinner.
Soon, the fragrant meal was served.
The husband takes over the responsibility of taking care of the children from his wife, so that his wife can eat first with peace of mind.
During the wife's meal time, the husband not only plays with the children, but also takes the opportunity to take a bath for the children, carefully apply body lotion, change clean diapers, etc.
Until the baby fell asleep, he took the used utensils from his wifeurged his wife to hurry up and take a bath and rest, and clean up the table by herself.
Although this scene is ordinary and everyday,But it has won the likes and resonance of countless netizens on the Internet.
I think,This is probably because in every marriage, there are similar situations.
The husband comes home from work and finds his wife, who has worked hard all day, still busy around the children.
However, in reality, some people turn a blind eye to this
They may choose to slump on the couch and indulge in games or television;
There are even some peoplewill also criticize his partner, "why haven't you cooked yet".
It seems that these housework, children's diet and daily life,It has all become the wife's unilateral responsibility, and it has nothing to do with herself.
But marriage is a boat that two people ride together, and if one of them slacks off on paddlingNo matter how hard the other person struggles, it is difficult for the boat to sail to the other side of the ideal.
A long-term love relationship in the world is nothing better than that, after the passion fades,What maintains the temperature of marriage is each other's sense of responsibility and conscience.
Only the two of them support each other, share the wind and rain, and carry the trivial things in life togetherThe days can go for a long time, and the love is deep.
In addition to love, the maintenance of marriage also requires another kind of bond
It does not originate from children or monetary interestsIt stems from a kind of true affection for each other and going through hardships together.
Indeed, two people who have to walk side by side through the long road of life,During the journey, it is inevitable to encounter wind and rain and bumpy mud.
Compared to the sweet vows when the love is strong,Even more precious is the steadfast watch when the storm hits
It is a mutual support in times of distress and helplessness
This is the truest and deepest embodiment of the true feelings between husband and wife.
As the saying goes:"Husband and wife are birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster comes. ”
However, there is always no shortage of sincere emotions in the world, in that extremely dark momentThere is always such a person, who is resolutely unwilling to let go of the other person's palm.
Today's wife, despite her physical inconvenience, her speech is slurredBut in front of the camera, she was full of satisfied smiles
Do her best to respond to her husband's deep friendship and moral insistence.
It's like a solemn promise made at a wedding:
No matter the good or bad, healthy or sick, rich or poor, I will keep it to my partnerLoyalty, life and death depend on each other
The most touching thing about feelings:
Not only in the heart-warming moment when they first met, but also in the years and months
After going through the mountains and rivers, the husband and wife still maintain it.
The true love and unswerving tacit companionship of facing the predicament together.
May you and I be in this prosperous worldcan understand the principle of the causal cycle of marriage
Sow more seeds of kindnessI look forward to the day when I can harvest the beauty of life.
The man who was once heartwarming in his youth,It should also become a person who can still accompany him to old age and sleep with the same pillow after the precipitation of the years
There are long years to reminisce, and there is also deep love that can be carried together to the gray hair.
Pay attention, may you understand cause and effect.
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