In the song "Home" performed by Luo Dayou affectionately, he once sang like this: "My warm family is the place where my life set sail, carrying the most innocent and beautiful times of my childhood; It was the shackles I longed to break free, but it was also the direction in which the tears in my heart now flowed back. ”
Home is undoubtedly the warmest haven in the depths of our souls, and it is also the eternal destination of everyone's soul. No matter where we go in the world, there is always a deep attachment to home and endless expectations in our hearts.
The selfless encouragement and firm support among family members is like an inexhaustible source of motivation, nourishing our growth path and building the strongest fortress for us to move forward bravely in the journey of life.
Having a home full of happiness and warmth is undoubtedly the most precious treasure in life, which cannot be measured by money, but can give us incomparable strength and courage.
In the new year, let us take care of and manage this warm family with our hearts, because this is not only accumulating the temperature of life, but also earning the wealth and value of life invisibly.
Family internal friction is often more terrible than poverty
As the old Chinese saying goes, "When everything is prosperous at home, everything can be achieved when the heart works together." ”
If a family is caught in a constant whirlpool of internal strife, it will be like a moth eroding the foundation of a tree, which will eventually lead to the weakening of the bond until the home falls apart.
In the work "One Day and Three Autumns", Chen Changjie and Cherry, a loving couple who once played Fahai and White Snake in the Yu Opera Troupe, were disbanded with the dissolution of the troupe, and the torrent of life washed away their former beauty. The trivial pressures of life are like sandpaper, gradually smoothing out their deep friendship.
Within the family, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is tense, and the quarrels between husband and wife are like daily meals, and the rift becomes more and more obvious after each conflict.
Cherry ran away from home with her son because of her insoluble grievances against her mother-in-law, causing her grandparents to be separated and see each other indefinitely. In the face of cherry's fierce behavior, Chen Changjie chose to respond with indifference, borrowed wine to kill his sorrows, and returned late every night.
The climax of the tragedy came in a trivial dispute when Mingliang was three years old - just because of a handful of leeks, Cherry and Chen Changjie broke out into a fierce war of words. Eventually, in the abyss of despair and helplessness, Cherry chooses to end her own life, and this once happy family collapses.
Material poverty is dreadful, but what is even more chilling than poverty is the internal friction that lurks deep in the family. It silently eats away at the emotional connection between family members, causing the originally close family to drift apart until it leads to irreparable tragedy in life.
As Ma Hao, a well-known professor at China University of Political Science and Law, said: "The biggest stumbling block for a family to move towards prosperity is not poverty itself, but the internal friction that is deeply rooted in the family." ”
The power of internal friction in the family is often destructive beyond material deprivation, enough to consume all a person's energy, and even threaten the harmony and happiness that a family should have.
Life is like a short firework, we don't have to carry the heavy shackles of pain and complaints, and we should avoid letting trivial and unworthy things drain each other's vitality.
Achieving inner harmony and tranquility is an indispensable cornerstone for maintaining family harmony, and it is also the deepest and most responsible care for oneself.
Stopping unnecessary internal friction is like unloading a heavy bag for the soul, allowing the beauty of life to bloom in the heart, and also enabling us to cherish and enjoy every sincere emotional interaction and harmonious coexistence in our limited life journey.
The best family relationship is one that nourishes each other
Someone on the Internet launched a ** about the true meaning of family happiness: what should the ideal family relationship look like in your mind? ”
A netizen gave an affectionate answer: "The ideal home is nothing more than a harmonious and happy harbor." Family members should be like the affection of green leaves for roots, nourish each other, and spend the wind and rain together; Work together on major decisions, and don't trace old grievances too much in trivial daily life. ”
In a happy family structure, difficulties and challenges are not obstacles, but like whetstones for life, and firm support for each other is the invincible strength to overcome difficulties together.
When it comes to the model of marriage, the story of Pan Su and Zhang Boju is undoubtedly enviable. She was born in Suzhou Wang, since she was a child, she showed a talent for painting, and her mother had a discerning eye for pearls, and did not hesitate to invite famous teachers to cultivate her.
However, as fate would have it, when Pan Su was thirteen years old, her mother died of illness, and her stepmother ruthlessly sold her into the land of Fireworks Willow Lane. It wasn't until she was twenty years old that she met Zhang Boju, a soulmate with a unique eye and a deep soul that could touch her soul.
The two fell in love at first sight and quickly entered the sacred hall of marriage. After her marriage, Zhang Boju paved a smooth path for Pan Su's artistic career with incomparable tolerance and support, not only encouraging her to pursue painting, but also personally searching for famous teachers for her, and accompanying her to travel north and south of the country, drawing creative inspiration and source from the magnificent mountains and rivers.
Zhang Boju's love is like a spring rain moisturizing things silently, deeply nourishing Pan Su's heart, stimulating her infinite artistic potential, and making her bloom a dazzling starlight in the landscape painting world.
Pan Su also responded to her husband with the same affection, and she did not hesitate to sell her jewelry and help Zhang Boju's enthusiasm for collecting, which showed her understanding and support for her husband. She knows Zhang Boju's patriotism and is willing to sacrifice everything for his dream.
The mutual affection and mutual achievement between them make each other's lives more abundant and meaningful, and jointly compose a beautiful movement of love and career.
In 1952, the couple donated the historical "Spring Tour" and other precious calligraphy and paintings to the Palace Museum in Beijing, a move that shows their unreserved cherishing and inheritance of cultural heritage.
Ms. Satyr, a leader in the field of psychology, once said affectionately: "I firmly believe that the family is like an independent and unique universe, which can give birth to a warm atmosphere that is completely different from the outside world, full of love, care and understanding, and become a spiritual oasis for each individual to nourish life and accumulate strength." ”
The ideal family relationship is just like a kind of spiritual irrigation and emotional symbiosis between each other, and the family members nourish each other and grow together.
When the tiredness of life comes like a tide, home becomes a haven of tranquility, gently brushing away the wind and frost dust on your body, so that the soul can be deeply soothed and rested;
In the face of all kinds of setbacks and challenges on the road of life, home has instantly transformed into a source of tenacious strength, continuously injecting you with the courage to move forward fearlessly, and firming your steps forward every step forward.
No matter how the years go by, the deep love and companionship from our family is always like a bright light, warming every corner of our long life journey, infiltrating and enriching our spiritual world.
If you run your family well, you're making money
On Douban, a hotly discussed post proposed: "Compared with bothering to maintain social relationships, it is more critical and important to manage family relationships." ”
Married life is like weaving a harmonious picture, you need to maintain deep communication with your partner, care for each other, move forward together, and develop the habit of saving regularly. Only by building a solid foundation for the family will wealth come as promised and knock on the door.
Running a family is like running a company, and wealth can only be collected like a trickle of wealth if you use the right methods and take care of it wholeheartedly.
Here is the true story of my friend Xiaomei shared by a netizen, which vividly illustrates this concept.
The love story of Xiaomei and Long Yao is like the beginning of a romantic movie, but the trivial troubles and challenges of real life are far harsher than the plot of the movie.
Faced with the current situation of poverty in Long Yao's family, although Xiaomei was under great pressure, she resolutely chose to stick to and manage this relationship with her heart.
She supports the family economy with a diligent work attitude, adheres to the principle of diligence and thrift, and looks forward to building a barrier against wind and rain for this warm nest. However, Long Yao is immersed in a lazy and casual lifestyle, often changing glasses with friends who drink and meat, and ignores the family's financial difficulties.
After a fierce argument, Long Yao, who was out of control, accidentally broke the water bottle and accidentally broke the glass window, causing his wrist to be bloody. This scene made Xiaomei feel desperate, as if her life had fallen into boundless darkness.
However, this accident became a turning point in Long Yao's life, and he began to reflect on himself and face up to his long-neglected family problems. After learning the hard way, he decided to quit smoking and drinking, and shared the responsibility of the family with Xiaomei.
Working hand in hand, they learned freshwater farming techniques from scratch and successfully contracted a pond. The husband and wife work together, and life gradually takes on new vitality.
With the passage of time, the scale of their breeding business has continued to expand, their wealth has increased year by year, and their lives have become more and more prosperous. This story tells us that if you manage it with care, the family can not only become a safe haven, but also a fertile ground for wealth and happiness.
I thought that family harmony and happiness were only the destination of emotions, but as everyone knows, it is also the cornerstone of financial prosperity.
Someone knows this well: "Emotions may not need to be deliberately carved, but the management of the family requires ingenuity." ”
A warm family like a harbor not only carries deep affection, but also is a warm soil for wealth.
Running a family is like investing in an intangible and far-reaching treasure. In the short term, the returns may not be significant; However, in the long run, the value is not measurable in monetary terms.
When a family has the same heart and mind and works together, then material wealth will be quietly accumulated, and spiritual wealth will increase exponentially.
Therefore, managing your family properly is the best way to grow your wealth in the new year.
Bing Xin once said affectionately: "A warm and beautiful family is the source of all happiness and strength." ”
Home is the first memory engraved in the depths of our hearts, and it is also our final spiritual destination after the vicissitudes of life.
With the accumulation of years, we will gradually realize that the key element that really affects our quality of life is the warmth and harmony that comes from the family.
Managing your family with care and nurturing each other is undoubtedly a long-term investment in your future life, an intangible but invaluable asset.
This kind of intrinsic investment will be like alcohol, so that our quality of life will be improved day by day, and the path of life will become broader and more open.
At the end of this article, I sincerely invite you to touch "Follow", and in the new year, I hope that we can all abandon the unnecessary consumption within the family, strengthen the emotional bond with the family, and move towards a happy and prosperous life together.