Generally speaking, everyone thinks that only men can do this kind of thing of "wearing pants and not recognizing people". But in fact, in real life, women may also do this, and there are fewer people who don't see than men.
Regardless of whether it is a man or a woman, in some cases, in order to gain some benefits or satisfy their own selfish desires, they may do irresponsible things. This may have something to do with the individual's personality, values, and upbringing.
Of course, we can't knock over a boatload of people with a single shot.
In today's society, everyone has everything. "I don't recognize people when I put on my pants" is really speechless. Do you know what I mean? It's the kind of thing that dares to promise anything in order to pursue his goals, and dares to say anything. But as soon as things go wrong, or they have to take responsibility for themselves, they immediately change their faces, and their previous commitment and enthusiasm are gone, as if nothing has happened.
For example, Xiao A promised to help Xiao B revise his resume, but he didn't move after getting the resume, and Xiao B wanted to use it, and Xiao A also found some excuses to shirk it. This behavior not only affected Little B's plan, but also made Little B's trust in Little A be compromised.
For example, when you are in love, one party talks sweetly and swears an alliance when you are pursuing, but after you are together, you turn a blind eye to the original promise, which will definitely hurt the other party.
To be honest, this kind of person is really disappointing. As Shakespeare said, "Man's life is short, but if he lives it vilely, it is too long." We believe in them and give away our sincerity, and as a result, they trust us like this, which is not harmful, and the relationship is also messed up. Moreover, this behavior has the potential to affect the people around you like a butterfly effect. After all, in today's society, everyone is connected, and if one person does not speak of credit, a bunch of people may suffer.
Therefore, we still have to be more mindful, not only not to become this kind of person ourselves, but also to learn to recognize them. When encountering commitments and responsibilities, don't be embarrassed, think clearly, consider whether you have the ability to do this, whether you have the actual situation, and don't easily make promises that you can't fulfill.
As the ancients said, "Words must be believed, and deeds must be fruitful." This means that what you say must be counted, and what you do must have a result. This is not only the basic principle of being a human being, but also a manifestation of responsibility for oneself and others.
In this day and age, there is a lot of information, and the relationship between people is also very tight, and if you do something irresponsible, it will be exposed in minutes. Just like those celebrities, talking doesn't count, and as a result, his image is ruined and his career is ruined.
As a popular copywriter says: "If you come out to mix, you will have to pay it back sooner or later".
Therefore, we still have to be honest and responsible, to win the trust and respect of others. Only in this way can we stand firm in this complex society.
Anyway, let's work together to resist the behavior of "wearing pants and not recognizing people", and create an honest and harmonious social environment together!