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Recently, a story about a mother-in-law who used a 17 yuan fish to kill her daughter-in-law's 7-year marriage has attracted widespread attention on the Internet. In this story, the mother-in-law, with her unreasonable behavior and selfish ideas, seriously destroys the family and marriage of her daughter-in-law Lily. Let's take a look at the ins and outs of this story.
Lily is a gentle and kind woman who has been working hard to manage her marriage. In order to make up for her family, she bought a big fish. The body of the fish is shiny, and the scales shimmer with a silvery white light. Her heart was filled with joy and anticipation, thinking that this delicious fish dish would bring a hearty dinner to the family. However, the mother-in-law was dissatisfied with the size of the fish, thinking that the fish was too big to eat was a wasteLily tried to explain that this was her intention for her family, but her mother-in-law didn't listen and walked away with the fish.
When the mother-in-law brought it back, there was only a small fish worth only 17 yuan in her hand, and the body of the fish was dull and looked a little unfresh. Lily's heart immediately became heavy, and she felt that her mother-in-law's actions were a disregard for her intentions and a contempt for her efforts. Not only did the mother-in-law not realize her mistake, but she also counted Lily as she said that she didn't value money and couldn't live. These words pierced Lily's heart like a sharp sword, and she felt snubbed and humiliated by her mother-in-law.
This is not the first time something like this has happened. This is not the first time Lily has been morally kidnapped by her mother-in-law. In the eyes of her mother-in-law, it seems that Lily can never do it right. Whether it's housework or taking care of the children, Lily is picked on and blamed by her mother-in-law. The mother-in-law always complained that Lily couldn't cook, couldn't take care of the family, and even criticized her for dressing up. Every time the mother-in-law reproaches are like a nail in Lily's heart, making her feel that she cannot meet her mother-in-law's requirements and cannot be recognized and respected by her. Quarrels and conflicts gradually eroded her confidence in marriage and respect for her mother-in-law.
In fact, the mother-in-law's behavior is much more than that. She always makes all kinds of criticisms and accusations against Lily, and even constantly interferes in her life and work. Lily has her own career pursuits and hopes to achieve something. However, the mother-in-law believes that women should put the family first and should not have too many personal pursuits. She often obstructs Lily's development and has an aversion to her work. The mother-in-law's interference and incomprehension left Lily feeling constrained and confused, unable to pursue her dreams, and losing a glimmer of joy and freedom in her life. Such words and deeds are undoubtedly a great damage to Lily's self-esteem and self-confidence.
The most distressing thing is that Lily complains to her husband, hoping that he will understand her plight and support her. However, her husband ignored her distress, thinking that she was unreasonable and had so much to do with the elderly. This left Lily feeling helpless and isolated, and she began to doubt her choices and the direction of her life. She used to think that marriage was one where two people supported and understood each other, but the reality told her that she could not get real support and love in this family.
This accumulation of family conflicts eventually led to the breakdown of Lily's marriage. Her husband's indifference to her and blind adoration of her mother-in-law made Lily feel unbearable. She decides to leave the family that is causing her pain and start her life anew.
This story makes us think deeply:In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, both parties should respect and tolerate each other, and should not impose their own ideas on each other. As a senior elder, the mother-in-law should give Lily enough respect and understanding, instead of blindly blaming and interfering. At the same time, the husband should also understand her plight from his wife's perspective and give her adequate support and love.
How to resolve the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a problem that many families must face. First, both parties need to communicate and listen to understand each other's needs and ideas. Second, both sides need to respect each other's lifestyles and ideas, and find common ground and room for compromise on the basis of respect. Finally, both sides need to establish a good communication mechanism to solve problems in a timely manner and avoid escalation of conflicts.
Marriage is a matter for two people, and it takes both parties to work together to manage and maintain it. The mother-in-law's moral kidnapping and interference with Lily is undoubtedly an injury to her marriage and a violation of her personal dignity. We should call on more people to pay attention to this issue, advocate a harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and work for the happiness of every family.
Only when everyone can learn to respect and tolerate can the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law be harmonious and develop. We should call on more people to pay attention to this issue, advocate a harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and work for the happiness of every family. Let's work together to create a warm and harmonious environment for the happiness of every family.