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Introduction. The Chinese New Year is a day that everyone is looking forward to, bringing not only a delicious reunion dinner to the children, but also a large "red envelope". Xiao Yu, a third-grade student in Hangzhou, accepted 700,000 red envelopes, a move that sparked heated discussions and questions on the Internet. Everyone is amazed: the people of Hangzhou are so rich! This can't help but cause us to think deeply: is such a large red envelope a symbol of the festival for children, or what is the negative effect?
700,000 red envelopes.
According to her mother, she has been given 700,000 yuan in red envelopes, most of which were sent by her grandparents and other relatives. It can be seen from ** that Xiao Yu received a thick stack of red envelopes during the Chinese New Year, including a 10,000 yuan. The red envelope added a lot of joy and excitement to Xiaoyu's New Year.
The number of red envelopes varies greatly from place to place. In stark contrast, Guangdong netizens said that they generally only give their children 50 yuan for the New Year's money, and most of them are 5 yuan or 10 yuan. This cannot but cause people to think deeply: will the number of "red envelopes" change their views and behaviors on life?
The positive effect of red packets.
Red envelopes are a very meaningful custom and a favorite holiday gift for children. After getting the "red envelope", the children will be very happy, and they will feel very happy and have a sense of accomplishment. In addition, receiving "red envelopes" is also a kind of "financial enlightenment" that allows them to have a deeper understanding of "money", so that they can learn how to use "money" at a very young age.
In addition, "red envelopes" can also bring children a small amount of pocket money, which can help develop their financial awareness. Children can use their own red envelopes, such as buying their favorite toys, books, or participating in public welfare activities. Such self-management experiences can help children develop their thinking skills and survival skills.
The negative effects of red packets.
However, "red envelopes" also have their negative effects. First of all, children are prone to a "comparison" mentality, believing that the number of "red envelopes" can reflect whether the family is wealthy, and often compare with other students, which promotes "comparison" and "vanity". Such a comparative psychology will not only bring negative consequences to children's emotions and interpersonal relationships, but also bring adverse consequences to children's academic and development.
Secondly, too much money in red envelopes is likely to lead to a lack of awareness of money in children. Children tend to spend money blindly without thinking about how to save or invest. When they are faced with more financial problems, the lack of financial concepts can overwhelm them. Therefore, parents should set a good example and guide their children to understand and use "red envelopes".
A few thoughts on red envelopes and red envelopes.
We must maintain a sober understanding of the issue of "red envelope fever". First of all, let's not say in general terms, we should give children a few red envelopes. Different families have different financial conditions and different educational concepts, and parents should proceed from their own reality and combine the needs of their children to make appropriate arrangements for the amount of red envelopes.
In addition, parents should also pay attention to the teaching and guidance of their children. Parents can work with their children to develop financial plans, teach them how to save money, how to invest it, and let them know that money is earned. In this process, students should be guided to understand the meaning of "red envelopes", not to spend too much money, and not to compare with others.
Conclusion. Red envelopes are an ancient custom that brings warmth, joy and joy. However, do not blindly chase "red envelopes" and ignore the education of children's values and money concepts. Parents should set a good example and teach their children to have a correct understanding of the "red envelope", so that they can understand its value and role at an early age, so as to develop reasonable spending and financial management skills.
On the occasion of the Chinese New Year, let's celebrate the Chinese New Year with children! No matter how big the red envelope is, the most important thing is the happiness and health of the children. Let's work together to create a suitable growth conditions for children, so that children can develop healthily in happiness and lay a solid foundation for their future life.
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