A female teacher cheated on a 16-year-old high school student, which is one of the hottest topics recently, and when I saw this news, I want to say that what they lack the most is responsibility, and life is more incomplete.
First of all, the behavior of this female teacher's husband through the **female teacher is wrong, because although the female teacher cheats, they are still husband and wife, regardless of the relationship between husband and wife, the woman is still an individual protected by the law, although it is said that the cheating is immoral, but the man's ** privacy behavior is also irresponsible.
I say this, many people may not be able to understand, we can see from many cases of cheating, the so-called cheating in most cases is the cheating in the absence of feelings, lost responsibility, and once the responsibility is returned, he (she) will return to the family normally.
Many *** have similar descriptions of the psychology of the protagonist of the cheating behavior, such as the Korean movie "Weekend Bed", the American film "Stealing the Heart", and "The Dream of the Covered Bridge", etc., these films all show us the conflict between ethics and love in the form of comedy, but without exception, the cheating party will eventually return to the normal track.
Secondly, I am not favoring this female teacher, and the behavior of the female teacher must be punished, but I personally believe that her life should not be destroyed because of this incident.
Society is moving forward, that is to say, it is developing in the direction of a better degree of civilization.
Take the behavior of this teacher as an example, in ancient times, we often used capital punishment such as immersing such women in pig cages, and we have always believed that such methods are legal and justified, and for those unchaste women, they should be put in pig pens and sunk to the bottom.
In feudal society, people and people do not constrain each other by equality, but have a set of ethics that men are superior to women, and husbands are wives to define the relationship between husband and wife.
Under the influence of feudal ideology, we tend to be more ruthless in the disloyalty of those around us than in the enemy, because of the intolerance of the object of our contempt and the destruction of her thoughts because of what we can't get.
However, modern society has become a matter of respecting the privacy of each individual, and the fact that the law will adopt closed trials in cases similar to marital disputes shows that we are also in line with world civilization.
Of course, many of us shout and kill for private morality, and the performance of not allowing sand in our eyes, after all, it has lasted for thousands of years and needs time to transform.
When our society has formed a civilized sense of the rule of law, we will definitely recognize these facts objectively, reject moral purity, and we will definitely understand and realize that there are no saints or gods in this world, and we are all living people.
Finally, I want to say that instead of caring so much about the private virtues of unrelated people, it is better to look at *** and think more.
There are constant cheating farces in society, and the final result is nothing more than the disgrace of the victim, the broken family, and even the suicide of despair, I think people with real moral consciousness will not want such a tragedy to happen.
As an aside, I despise those who like to talk about other people's private virtues, for fear that the world will not be chaotic, and I think they are just cowards who wield knives at the weaker.
This kind of person is the kind of person who has an emperor dream in his heart and is extremely good for the same kind of people.
This is also why all the kings of our country will never be restrained in ** after gaining absolute power, which emperor does not have three palaces and six courts?
And it doesn't just exist in men, whether it is Wu Zetian or Zhao Ji or other feminist superiors in history, after they gain absolute power, they are also unable to control in terms of **, and they often have people for their fun.
Is it normal to behave because of their special status? From this point of view, the female teacher and her husband are equal, she is not the private property of the other party, she is not illegal, and the reason why she behaves like this is also because she cannot control her desires.
Her husband's behavior has completely damaged the privacy and reputation of the female teacher, and the reputation and privacy of the male student have also been damaged, and the husband of the female teacher cannot be the winner, on the contrary, his reputation and interests will also be affected.
And the vast number of people who eat melons have not won anything, it is a waste of time, and their time is not worth it anyway.
And I also know that they despise everything measured by interests, they only talk about feelings, and I want to say that it is the behavior of despising interests and only talking about feelings, which is also the reason why our thinking has not grown for thousands of years.
The market model that emphasizes the commercial value is the foundation of civilization, and the warehouse knows the etiquette, the food and clothing are sufficient and the honor and disgrace are known, and it is better to eat less melons if you can't eat enough, don't eat bad stomach and get sick, why bother to look down on the disease.
There is still a long way to go on the road to civilization.
I am Lao Wei, I think about it every day, share my life every day, I think the article is good, and I click "reading" to let more people understand the knowledge of human ethics and ethics.