Uncle is one of my native villagesVillage Party Secretary, and a role model for me as a child. He has been working in the village for more than 30 yearsVillage Party Secretary, silently made many contributions to the village. He built roads, installedStreet lights, mediating the contradictions between the villagers and neighbors. Uncle was a diligent, upright, and loyal man, and I deeply regret and think about his passing.
The death of my uncle made me realize that the death of a person does not cause much concern and grief for most people. The number of people at the funeral was limited, and most people just came to check in and attend a live party. The triviality, busyness and reality of life have made people gradually numb to the departure of their loved ones, and their view of life and death has become indifferent.
When I returned to my hometown to attend my uncle's funeral, I witnessed a scene that made my heart ache. Except for the uncle's relatives, the others did not show sadness at the funeral, but gathered together to laugh and laugh. This lack of respect for the deceased is indignant and heartache to me.
At the funeral scene, relatives and friends greeted each other and exchanged trivial matters of work and life, without any trace of sadness. They played poker together, chatted and laughed together, as if the funeral was just an excuse for a party. The women who helped in the kitchen, dressed in splendid costumes, talked and laughed, as if they were completely unaware of the solemnity of the occasion. All of them were beaming and enjoying the occasion with joy and carefree care.
At the funeral, some people wore flowers, some laughed loudly, and some even brushed ** louder than the funeral scene. These actions are undoubtedly disrespectful to the deceased and disrespectful to the family of the deceased. A funeral is an occasion of grief and should be solemn, with respect and condolences for the deceased. People should be quiet in the occasion, not laughing loudly, and not making loud noises.
I believe that people attending funerals should pay their respects and condolences to the deceased, rather than treating it as a party. Whether it is a loved one or a friend, we should all feel sorry and sad for the passing of the deceased. We should remember the past of the deceased with a sincere heart and pray that they rest in heaven.
My uncle's funeral made me think more deeply about life. Life and death are propositions that everyone faces, and for the vast majority of people, except for their own families, others do not feel much care and sadness about it. Because in realitySocialIn the pursuit of life, work and wealth, people gradually ignore the true attitude towards life and death.
From childhood to adulthood, we grew up andSocialwitnessed the transformation of people's hearts. The relationship between people is becoming more and more indifferent, and the bonds of affection are gradually loosening. In the process of pursuing life, we often forget to care for and cherish the people around us, and we do not regret it until they leave.
NowadaysSocialThe pace is fast, people are working hard for life, the blind date is gone, and the human touch is also weakened. People care about their own lives, careers, and enjoyment, rather than love and respect for others. Therefore, for life and death, we need to cherish the people in front of us more, care for our relatives and friends around us, and treat life more seriously, gratefully and cherished.
From my uncle's funeral, I felt the fragility and impermanence of life. I am deeply saddened by people's indifference and disrespect for the deceased. I believe that both the living and the dead should be respected and cared for. Life is precious, and everyone should give more love and value to themselves and others.
Therefore, we must not allow ourselves to live too tired, and we should not care about gains and losses and material pursuits. In a limited life, we should pay more attention to the management of interpersonal relationships and the cultivation of family and friendship. Cherish the time with your family, treat everyone around you with sincerity, and give them more love and support.
At the same time, we also need to think about our own value and mission in life. Whether it's to be oneVillage Party Secretary, or engage in other professions, we should all be forSocialMake meaningful contributions to others. Human life is short and precious, and we should use our own power to change the surrounding environment and the fate of others.
At my uncle's death and funeral, I thought about life, life and death, and the relationship between people. Life is so fragile that the attitude towards life and death and the concern for others need to be more cherished and persistent. Let us use sincere attitudes and actions in a limited time to convey love and create beautiful interpersonal relationships, so that everyone's life is worthy of respect and cherishment.