There are many beautiful and warm things in this society now, but there are also some bad and bad habits. People's hearts are unpredictable, and in the process of interacting with others, we cannot repeatedly lower our bottom line.
It is said that raising children prevents old age, but how many lonely and widowed elderly people are abandoned by their own children. Those with a conscience will put their parents in a nursing home and occasionally visit them in a nursing home; Those who have no conscience will completely ignore the life or death of their parents, and even how many reports on the social news say that brothers and sisters who should love each other have fought each other or even sued each other for property.
Family is a warm harbor, and family affection is the bond of blood. Human nature is complex, and as parents, they must all love their children. The old people often say that the palms of the hands and the backs of the hands are full of meat, but there are a few parents who can give their children equal love. How siblings should get along with each other.
The newlywed Yan'er met a strange sister-in-law
Xiaomei and Xiaolin met in college, and they had a lot of good times together. They were in a relationship when they were in college, and when they graduated from college, they had to discuss getting married. Because Xiaolin has just come out of society and has no savings in his hands, a couple of young newcomers still have to rely on the support of their families.
Xiaomei is the only daughter in the family, all kinds of pampering at home, Xiaomei and Xiaolin after determining the relationship, they have seen each other's parents, understand the basic situation of both families, Xiaomei's parents also know Xiaolin, think this young man is good, the two families are not far away, after all, he has only one child, and he wants the child to be closer to him.
The second elder thought that since the relationship between the two children had stabilized, he could prepare for marriage, so Xiaolin arranged a meeting between the two parents and talked about marriage.
Since Xiaomei is an only daughter, Xiaolin's family situation is not very good, so Xiaomei's parents are in charge, and give their daughter a wedding room as a wedding room, Xiaolin Fang is responsible for the decoration, because she thinks that Xiaomei will have children in the future, and her mother-in-law will come to take care of her, so she bought a bigger house.
The wedding room and bride price were almost discussed, and the two families sat down to have a meal together and found a good day, and set the wedding date. And just like that, they got married. After the wedding, Xiaomei and Xiaolin went out for their honeymoon, and when they came back, they found that their mother-in-law and sister-in-law had moved into their own wedding room, and they were a little unhappy.
But the mother-in-law said that the sister-in-law did not buy a house when she got married, and worked outside all year round, and only came back during the Chinese New Year. It's not good to rent a house now when you come back from work, it's better to live in Xiaomei's wedding house, anyway, their house is big, and they live in it, although Xiaomei is a little unhappy about their behavior of cutting first and then playing, but thinking that the family still wants to be harmonious, and they can't live long before they agree.
But Xiaomei didn't know that her sister-in-law didn't think like this. When Xiaolin and Xiaomei returned home after a day's work, they saw their sister-in-law and her husband lying on the sofa in their living room, with their feet on the coffee table, swallowing melon seeds in their hands, and a pile of garbage on the ground.
Obviously in her own home, but there is no sense of a guest, Xiaomei felt that as a sister-in-law, she said a few words to her sister-in-law, but the sister-in-law was very impatient and said that she knew, but this situation is always about to happen every once in a while, Xiaomei was very irritable in her heart, so she said a few words to her husband Xiaolin, and asked Xiaolin to talk to her mother-in-law and take care of her daughter.
The sister-in-law will only be in the nest
After hearing what her son said, Xiaomei's mother-in-law felt that her daughter's husband had taken her daughter badly and deviated, because she didn't agree with her daughter marrying him from the beginning, and felt that he was not decent or a serious person, so she tricked her daughter into bed when the two of them were working outside, and his daughter had to let them get married.
But Xiaomei's mother-in-law found out that her daughter was deceived by her husband after she got married, and she put her husband first in everything, and she was about to become unaware of her daughter, so when she heard her son sue her, she was also angry in her heart, and felt that her daughter was embarrassed by herself, so she called her daughter over and said that she should take care of herself and her husband, so that he could be a little conscious of a guest, and don't be ashamed.
Xiaomei's sister-in-law was very unconvinced when she heard her mother say such a thing, and felt that her mother could say this about her husband, but after this scolding, instead of learning to restrain herself, she intensified it. We all live in the same home, and there will always be things like this that cannot be avoided.
Besides, Xiaomei was angry with the two of them, and when she saw them like this again, she said to her sister-in-law very coldly, if you do this again, move out of my house, in this way, as soon as the sister-in-law comes out, her husband's face can't hold it, and she feels very faceless, so she jumps at the sister-in-law and says that they want to go home, and the sister-in-law thinks about how to let her husband be wronged and suddenly gets angry and says.
"Mom, let your sister-in-law move out, your son-in-law is angry" Mother Don't be ashamed, she is in the wedding room
The sister-in-law said that how can this be considered her dowry room? We also paid for the decoration, so we should let her out, and her property will be ours after the divorce.
Xiaomei's mother-in-law was ashamed when she heard her daughter say such shameless words. Xiaomei felt angry, and felt that her kindness was not reciprocated, in their eyes, she was too good to bully, and she said that her sister-in-law and her husband had to move out today, otherwise they would call the police.
The sister-in-law was a little scared for a while when she heard her sister-in-law say that she was going to call the police, but she relieved herself and felt that her sister-in-law would definitely not call the police, and the ugliness of the family should not be publicized.
It's important to understand the law
When the police came to the door, the sister-in-law cried and shouted and begged her sister-in-law, saying that she was wrong, she shouldn't be so unreasonable.
Because she knew that her sister-in-law had not finished junior high school in her own school, she didn't want to study, so she had to drop out of school and stay at home for two years.
But Xiaomei really didn't expect that her sister-in-law graduated from elementary school, so she didn't have a sense of law, and she just didn't see the prosperity of a big city when she went out to work. It's sad to say that I'm scared when I see the police.
Poor and hateful, this is what the poor must hate. Xiaomei thought that there was nothing wrong with a low education, but she still knew that she was afraid of the police, so she told her sister-in-law that if something like this happened again, she would call the police next time, and the police would ask the police to lock her up next time they came, and they also threatened her that there were some murderers and criminals who didn't blink an eye.
In this way, Xiaomei's home is quiet again, and she is not so impatient when she returns home, and Xiaomei is very comfortable.
In a harmonious family relationship, the relationship is often determined by the relationship between husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and mother-daughter relationship, but the most important thing is that the sister-in-law herself did not give up the bottom line and stick to herself in the process of getting along with her sister-in-law.
Once a woman is married, don't be selfless, because such a woman ages quickly, and a coquettish woman is the best, maybe we should worry less about it, so maybe it will be happier.
In the end, I think that we should learn all the time to live and learn, especially when we have low academic qualifications, we should study even more, we should enrich ourselves, improve ourselves, and become a better version of ourselves.
As a sister-in-law, you must know how to grasp the sense of proportion, and don't always want to find a sense of existence in front of your sister-in-law. As the wife of her brother, her sister-in-law must not be an outsider, if her sister-in-law has to compete with her sister-in-law, she will not only cause a fuss in the end. It may also affect my brother's marriage.