At the moment of stepping on the homeland, there are always a few "old problems" that make people a little headache. No, when you go home for the Spring Festival, you may have encountered the "three consecutive questions": "How old are you?" "How much is the salary?" "Do you have a partner?" ”
Especially the question "How much is the current salary a month?" This question made many young people slightly embarrassed in laughter. In the eyes of our elders, we will always be the children who need to be cared for and cared for, even if we have grown up and entered society. Their questions may be direct, they may be a little stressful, but they contain the deep concern of the elders for us.
This concern stems from what they expect from us. They may not really understand the social environment and occupational pressures we live in, but they know that salary is an important indicator of a person's career achievement. They want us to have a stable job, a decent income, and a happy life.
How do we answer such questions? Is it telling the truth, or is it vague? There is no set answer. We can choose the appropriate way to respond according to our actual situation. If we do reach a relatively high level of wages, then we can be honest with our elders and make them proud of us; If our wages are not high, then we can also express it euphemistically, while emphasizing that we are working hard for a better future.
Of course, we can also change our thinking and see this issue as an opportunity to communicate with our elders. We can take this opportunity to tell them about what we do, share our career achievements, and even invite them to learn about our work environment. Through this kind of communication, we can let the elders know more about our living conditions, and we can also give them confidence in our future.
However, no matter how we answer, the most important thing is to keep a grateful heart. Thank you to the elders for their care and love, and thank them for all they have done for us. Their "salary torture", although sometimes we feel a little helpless, but more often let us feel the warmth of home and the sincerity of family affection.
In short, in the face of the "salary torture" of the elders, we don't have to be too nervous or embarrassed. We can answer with our hearts, communicate with love, and let this question become a bridge between us and our elders, connecting our emotions and understanding. In this Spring Festival full of love and care, let us repay the selfless dedication and deep expectations of the elders with sincere answers.
Returning home to an embarrassing moment