You may still not be able to get rid of your desires, sorrows, and troubles, but you have never given up struggling and moving forward. Every time you try to comfort yourself and tell yourself that you can get through it, you actually feel more and more heavy. However, you must understand that the fortunate thing about love is that it is not the whole focus of life. You should focus on a million other big things. After all, who wastes a lot of time and energy on a chaotic relationship?
A friend asked me for advice on how to come out of a broken relationship, and I told him that a busy and fulfilling lifestyle of pursuing a career, dedicating oneself to learning, and moving forward would alleviate all the pretentiousness and unnecessary thoughts. Falling in love and getting married are two very different concepts. Don't misunderstand the true meaning of life because of marriage, that is, finding a partner in later life. The ultimate goal of all efforts is to live a better life.
Tang Jing in the TV series "The First Half of My Life" has insight into love and marriage, and she sighed: "Love is fleeting; Marriage is like porcelain that is easy to break, so I want to pursue material and spiritual freedom. Yes, the promise at this time can be seen, and there may be reversal at that time, only its tenacity can grow with you.
You should apologize to yourself: I beg your pardon for forgetting your unique and irreplaceable importance. I'm sorry, but I've always put you under someone, but I couldn't be more wrong. I beg your pardon, I will start to accompany you again, through the ups and downs together, and spend the years together.
We have all hurt this deep fragility of our hearts, committed countless misunderstandings, and let pain, doubt, and loneliness occupy your inner world. But, remember, your past does not determine the future, and your present is changing the future. Stop dwelling on those unsolvable contradictions, try to accept the reality and face the future positively.
Life is not easy, and the future is full of challenges, but please believe that as long as you give it your all, nothing can stop you from moving forward. For the dreams and expectations in your heart, for your strong and brave heart, please move forward firmly and never stop!
I sincerely wish you a speedy healing of your wounds and the return to that confident, brave and optimistic self. No matter how tortuous and bumpy the road ahead is, may you be firm in your faith and brave the difficulties and obstacles until you finally reach the end of victory.