In our daily lives, we often encounter various conflicts and controversies. Some people, when faced with disputes, tend to adopt a straightforward attitude, believing that they are right and the other must be wrong. However, the true wise man understands that righteousness does not have to be strong, but also forgiveness. It's a more mature and wise way of doing things.
First of all, it is not necessary to be arrogant, because excessive confidence and toughness often lead to unnecessary conflicts and contradictions. When we firmly believe that our opinions are correct, it is easy to become aggressive and even attack and blame others. However, doing so often only makes the other side more opinionated and unwilling to accept our point of view. On the contrary, if we can express our opinions in a peaceful manner and respect the opinions of the other party, then the other party will be more likely to be persuaded by us and more receptive to our point of view.
Second, justification also requires forgiveness. Even if we have the upper hand in a dispute, we should learn to be tolerant and understanding. Because the dispute is not an end in itself, the most important thing is to solve the problem. If we insist on our position and refuse to budge, it may end up with an outcome that is unacceptable to both sides. On the other hand, if we are able to make concessions at the right time and show tolerance and understanding, it will be easier for the other side to accept our point of view and reach a mutually acceptable solution.
In practical life, this attitude of "being justified does not have to be strong, and being reasonable also needs to be forgiving" is very beneficial. Not only does it help us avoid unnecessary conflicts and contradictions, but it also allows us to better cooperate and communicate with others. Because when we are able to treat others with a peaceful and tolerant attitude, it is easier to build good interpersonal relationships and gain the trust and support of others.
In addition, this attitude can also make us more humble and introspective. When we are no longer overconfident and tough, we become more aware of our shortcomings and mistakes. In this way, it is easier for us to find our own problems and correct our mistakes. And this attitude of humility and self-reflection not only allows us to grow and progress better, but also makes us more respected and admired.
Of course, it is not easy to achieve "being upright and not being strong, but also being reasonable". This requires us to constantly cultivate our mindset and character in our daily lives. We need to learn to control our emotions and words, to be calm and rational. We also need to learn to listen to the opinions and ideas of others and respect their views and positions. Only in this way can we truly achieve "being upright and not being strong, but also being reasonable" and become a more mature and wise person.
You don't have to be upright, you need to be forgiving to be reasonable" is a very beneficial way of dealing with the world. Not only does it help us avoid unnecessary conflicts and contradictions, but it also allows us to better cooperate and communicate with others. At the same time, this attitude can also make us more humble and introspective, and become a more mature and wise person. Therefore, we should continue to cultivate our mentality and character in our daily life, and strive to practice this way of life to make ourselves a better person.